congrats guys
Thinking about setting up my white wife to be approached.
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when u meet a real bull - u won't have to worry about this. The issue is that you're just meeting guys - they are not bulls.
Good point.. but now what?
I think you should work on the swinging aspect first if or when successful your odds of making this work will be much better!
I think many people on here just don’t get it. A number of us have sexually repressed wives who have had it beat into their brains since they were little girls that exploring or even embracing their sexual needs and desires is not what good girls/women/wives and certainly not mothers, DO. That indoctrination comes from society at large, Madison ave., parents and especially religious teachings.
Many will go their entire lives not taking agency over their true sexual selves and it’s sad. Some break that mold but only after some compelling event (divorce, cheating spouse, slip up “under the influence,” another man flirting/hitting on her rekindling desires and needs she may have buried or forgotten about).
What I and others know is that if we approach our wives about non-vanilla wants/needs and they are asked or expected to take agency over the decision to accept or reject that activity, their indoctrination/training kicks in and the answer will be 100% “no way!”
But I know for my wife, especially because one of her big hang ups is she has poor body image (she shouldn’t, trust me) and she doesn’t think other men find her attractive, if we were away from home for a weekend, she had a couple adult beverages on board, and a good looking black guy flirted/hit on her, the odds of her taking the leap would go way up. This is the case because:
- When we are away from home she is freer, less stressed, much more adventurous and far hornier.
- She has known about my fantasy and how insanely it turns me on since well before we got married.
- Again, she doesn’t believe she is attractive and other men find her sexy (doesn’t help that she wears her wedding ring, doesn’t dress slutty, doesn’t go to bars and clubs, and she’s shy)
- A guy coming on to her is FAR different than her being asked to own and take proactive agency over a non vanilla sexual choice. It allows her to have cognitive “wiggle room” to say to herself or others if the situation came to light, “well this was an unusual situation, I had a few drinks, this younger good looking guy was coming on to me, we were on vacation, I let my guard down….. stuff happened. Normally I would NEVER do this but….”
My belief, which I think it supported by numerous anecdotal accounts on here regarding how wives got started in the lifestyle, they try something like this (fucking a well hung black guy with their husband’s approval and usually prompting), they get a lot of pleasure, excitement, satisfaction, etc. nothing bad happens in their relationship with their husband (quite the opposite many times), they aren’t struck by lightening, their ki-ds and other family members are totally unaware what went down, they feel sexy, desired, confident, self assured….. and they say, let’s keep it going.
At the end of the day, this would be about me creating opportunities for my wife to make a decision. No pressure, no telling the guy, “oh she’s a sure thing, totally will go for it.” Truth is I just don’t know. Assuming the guy is cool and polite, worst case scenario is she politely declines his overtures if they are unmistakable (if it was just sexy flirting there wouldn’t be anything to decline) and she would fuck me senseless later. That’s worst case.
If it were to come out that I arranged it, there would be bitching from her at me for a week plus, and she would never, ever believe a man coming on to her in the future was real and not a set up. If I were to find the right guy I think it’s worth the effort.
Amazing insight and thinking, thank you so much for the genuine detailed input..
Well put! Now comes the hard part, finding the right Bull to do the seduction work.
I tried this too. No go
Instead of setting your wife up, just show her a good time as any good husband would. Suggest that she dresses sultry for your benefit. Then take her out and let other men be naturally attracted to her. Look for night clubs, etc. that have a reputation for alpha males hitting on the wives of married couples. Letting the hot wife attitude that your wife already has inside her evolve naturally is more likely to succeed than schemes. You will be pleasantly surprised if your wife just ups and tells you she wants to have sex with another man. The rest as they say, will be history.
So I have told my wife recently after years of hinting finally about my cuckold series and the desire to share her. We have played it out in bed a few times with much success. She has been going on girls nights and tells me about how black men are always all over her. I told her how it turns me on when men hit on her especially in front of me. Recently she has been admitting that black men turn her on. My ******* just told me that she said is very much down for black men but wants to stay true to our marriage. So I have spoke with many bulls who seem willing to approach her “as a stranger”. I believe she would accept the attention especially when she has alcohol in her. I think it could go well for us. Just need to find the right bull near us.
Really seems like your in a peffect situation, please try your best to find the right dom blk man near you.
Amazing thoughts and insight, love your views and advise
That's the plan. I have talked to a few. Just haven't found the right one.
Good idea
Such as..?
Really didnt know that
I set up a tinder account for my sister-in-law , and made it black only.
