thanks, I been feeling the same. just thought might be a chance and seems best route on her terms to start without expressing my thoughts out loud
Thinking about setting up my white wife to be approached.
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Don't do it. It does NOT go as you plan/wish it would and even the slightest thing, if not well received, will haunt her....and haunt you. More creative, just point out that "a handsome black man was checking you out, baby" the next time you two go to happy hour. Start with that. (i hope that doesn't qualify as "life advice," I know I suck at it). 
The thought has occurred to me many, many times. The problem is there is no creative way to set this up secretly. I am open to suggestions.59-year-old suburban wife who works part-time and goes to bars with her girlfriends. Help!
Very nice to hear! Please give us some details on how it all went down. I know myself and others would love to hear the whole scenario.
Hi this is the details on how I was successful in meeting with a friend a d his wife! I hooked up with her like this! First the husband spoke with me about all the things that she likes when it comes to her men! Then we talked about what turns her on! We went over the ways she likes to flirt and how she does it! He also went over the does and don'ts! We spoke for a few days then we both devised a signal and plan to make it work. Now it must look spontanious and not scripted! You must not deviate from the plan! It would have to look like you just showen up or just met! He would give you the place and times! You must play it right and not miss your ques that you have been given! The husband gave her some story that matched and it all went well as I took over!
Great thoughts on following tru there is hope. thanks for your input.
There are videos of such situations that show the setup going terribly wrong for the boyfriend/husband. The woman may take up the offer much beyond the husband's expectations. One woman found out that it was a setup by the husband and divorced him. The idea sounds like fun but is not likely to turn out as you would like. You would be much better off bring open with her.
thanks for your thoughts input on this.
I tried two different times with both of my former wives and it doesn’t, or didn’t work. I think the ‘suddenness’ and the ‘catching off guard’ harms the moment. If you’re not careful, you definitely run the risk of losing her trust - and that’s not easily returned.
For both my wives, I finally admitted my fantasy and was quite surprised of their response. My first wife, I was never able to watch (unfortunately) but we did have some great role play. My second wife - I was honored and thrilled to be able to have watched her with two different black men on three separate occasions; not to mention the meet up with four other black men that didn’t quite click for bedroom time.
For both my wives, I finally admitted my fantasy and was quite surprised of their response. My first wife, I was never able to watch (unfortunately) but we did have some great role play. My second wife - I was honored and thrilled to be able to have watched her with two different black men on three separate occasions; not to mention the meet up with four other black men that didn’t quite click for bedroom time.
Thanks for the great input, really felt it was a outlet to start the process but very risky as you said and also getting the right man to go along must be hard.
If you were to set it up, I would arrange the meet at a dance club and be on the dance floor with her at the time that he steps in and takes the dance from you. From this point you can continue to dance as a threesome, until you can shy away and allow them some personal space - to hope and allow the next steps.
Be very careful though. Backfire will surely mess things up and lose that trust.
