I had to go check your profile. A post from September says that you haven’t shared your fantasy with your wife. My friend, you need to step up and own this. There are ways to do this that will not make her angry, or disgusted etc. Once she knows this turns you on you are in a MUCH better place to make a chance encounter turn out successfully. If you never told her you are basically hoping she cheats on you and breaks your marital bond. Most wives, fortunately, don’t want to do that to their husband. But if you admit it really turns you on and you have a fantasy of watching her fuck a black man, she doesn’t have to worry about all that added drama, cheating hurting your relationship etc. and it drastically increases the chances that you will actually get to watch the experience.
What is your reservation doing so?
I’m looking to do the same chance encounter situation with my wife but totally different situation. She has very poor body image and doesn’t feel attractive to other men, she has tons of inhibitions, hang ups and repression from her Catholic upbringing. She has had her most intense orgasms while role playing my fantasy and enjoying my fantasy related sex talk. Having a cool, good looking black guy flirt with her and hit on her would be a game changer. I can’t guarantee she will go for it, but it’s my best chance to get her true sexual self to come out.
In addition to all this buried sexuality, and having a guy really express sexual attraction for her, she knows she not only has my thumbs up, she knows I think about her doing this daily and jerk off to that fantasy daily as well.
If you are serious about this happening, you need to take a leap of faith first with your wife. I mean hell you have said your wife mentions really big cocks and black guys often. My wife was a big time prude before we got married and I divulged my full fantasy. Life is too short. You need advice on how to message this I am happy to help, but you have to be prepared to man the fuck up. Sorry to be blunt.