Well we all know that woman really like to discusse everything that happens between the sheets with their (best) friends. Do you girls tell your friends about your black lover. If so, have you tried to confince them to take one aswell?
This topic has come up before and the ultimate answer is yes we do talk. We talk about nearly everything you can image, how our husband's pissed us off that day to how big you are or small you are or how good or bad you are in bed. Some women are reluctant to talk about cheating or having sex with someone other than their husband but once they start they typically don't stop.
My boss and best friend is the one that got me started, she was not out going in telling everyone about her sleeping with a black co-worker but once she told me she didn't stop and strongly encouraged me to have sex with him. She told me how big he was, how good he was, that he knew what a man's tongue was for. I ended up taking her advice and haven't regretted it once.