My mom married a black man after she divorced my *******. I was nine. I thought he was so beautiful. He was so kind to me. It was just a natural progression for me. I met my husband who was married at the time. He asked me out. We dated until his divorce went through. When it was finalized we were married. He has 4 *******, three from his marriage and one from a college fling. I’m a step mom now and enjoying it immensely. We are open in our marriage. We both wanted it because we have been tied down before and hated it. It’s a wonderful arrangement for us.