Um no, the name cuckolding comes from the cuckoo bird and it involves the fact that after the female lays her eggs and the male fertilizes, she leaves him holding the bag so to speak because now he has to warm the eggs and get them to hatch.
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Um no, the name cuckolding comes from the cuckoo bird and it involves the fact that after the female lays her eggs and the male fertilizes, she leaves him holding the bag so to speak because now he has to warm the eggs and get them to hatch.
In fact, he's not the only bird treated like that. The emu in South America gets treated the same. It's a natural mechanism for the female to lay eggs as much as possible and preserve the species.
You are right. A cuckold is a husband whose wife has sex with another man - whether her husband knows it or not.
I meant cuckolding in the sense the lady talked about it, her husband knows it.
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I am sure that he appreciates that very much. In a way he participates, even if it's not normal sex with the wife.
For me it is very satisfying to watch my wife and her black boyfriend. In fact it's more satisfying than having normal sex with my wife.
hotcouple2233
Couple
Nope, sorry. That sums up none of my posts on this or any other thread.
My point boils down to this: Your husband obviously knows your needs, wants you to have great sexual experiences & has made your needs a priority of his.
So do you do the same for him? As your husband do YOU make his sexual needs a priority or not?
That's it. Beginning & End.
I've never said that sexual intimacy HAS to look one way or another. But I've always said that partners SHOULD maintain some kind of sexual connection and some kind of sexual intimacy.
With many couples his sexual needs are his fantasies. Agreed not all husbands want to be denied intercourse with their wives. But some are happier knowing that she is now fulfilled and if he hasn't satisfied her, why embarrass himself with trying and failing? If any man pushes his wife into or simply allows her to sleep with other men, the risk is always there that he could get cutoff or even loose his wife.
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hotcouple2233
Couple
Two things:
A) First if a guy says his fantisies are enough then my postition is his Wife should be actively stoking & participating in those fantisies.
It begins & ends with there should always be a sexual relationship & intimacy between a Husband & Wife. Both parties' needs need be equally met, even if the arrangement is imbalanced.
The above leaves wide open the whole spectrum of sexual expression for the couple to decide on.
What it doesn't provide is for one person to unilaterally neglect the other's needs, i.e. "cutting off".
("Cutting off" is NOT "Denial". Denial is a sexual act. Denial is more about maintaining sexual arousal then providing sexual release.)
It's no secret that in some relationships, whether kinky, lifestyle or vanilla, some partners will choose to neglect the sexual needs of their mate. They will rationalize it with whatever excuse is convenient.
Though, when asked which of their needs is it acceptable for their partner to neglect (emotional, sexual, financial, etc) the answer is ALWAYS waffling or silence.
If you want a purely platonic relationship w/o the burden of making sure your mates sexual needs are met that's fine....but you don't need to be married or a couple for that.
B) Re: "risk always there of getting cutoff"
Bullshit.
Total. Bullshit.
I've said a million times people learn two things in all their relationships: (1) WHAT they think they can get away with, and then (2) HOW to get away with it.
My previous wife wanted monogamy. I won't rehash the whole story.
I was reasonable & accomodative but celibacy was not what either of us agreed upon. So SHE was broke our agreement as much as if I was fucking around on her (which I never did).
Long & short: Old agreement out. New open agreement if she "defaulted" on our original one. Gave her a reasonable time frame to decide. She could go back to what we agreed to, leave, or move forward w/ new agreement but no hostage taking.
Less than two weeks later we were doing every depraved thing we'd been doing before the failed "hostage taking" fiasco.
She LEARNED what she couldn't get away with and made new decisions based on that knowledge.
It's a bullshit false choice that one person gets to arbitrarily dictate the sex life of another individual.
I like this part very much :
"It begins & ends with there shouldalways be a sexual relationship &intimacy between a Husband & Wife. Both parties' needs need be equally met, even if the arrangement is imbalanced."
Not only should this post be a sticky at the top of the forum, it should be required reading, including a quiz, before people are allowed to join this site...
hotcouple2233
Couple
You could have foregone the "point by point" if you saw the part about "wide open spectrum of sexual expression..."
But thanks for commenting
But thanks for commenting
I just wanted to voice what I see , Thank you I'm good.
halfhardcuck
Male
As a submisive cuckold-typse, for me my wife being exclusive with her boyfriend, my sexual superior, and cutting me off completely form any penetration, is exactly what I would love! It is as it should be- the superior man gets to have sex, the inferior man has no right to any. Very fair, very natural. Of course she and I woudl still be cose anad intimate- I gladly lick her, finger her, etc and of course very gladly clean up her lover's superior semen from her stretched out pussy or anywhere else. I live to serve THEM. I am more than happy to give up penetrative sex and even blowjobs of any sort, in exchange for seeing her happy and satisfied by a much better lover. I would appreciate hand jobs whenever she feels like giving me one. I would hope ot be allowed to masturbate when watching or listening to them having superior sex, but if not, I am happy to live on quiet hand sex while alone, as long as THEY are happy!
halfhardcuck
Male
Let us know if you do cut off your hub and go exlcusive with a superior Black Man!
Im glad your put your cuck hubby in his place. Shouldn't even give that sissy blowjobs. Let him jerk off while his wife gets smashed by huge black cocks.
halfhardcuck
Male
I agree with this totally. When I was in a cuckold relationship, my partner quite quickly stopped giving me blowjobs. I usually used a dildo on her, and she told me what was already obvious- "I enjoy the dildo much more than your little dick". So soon we hardly ever had intercourse. i only noticed about a year later that she hadn't given me abowjob i so long, though I licked her pussy and asshole every time we had sex or "sex" as we refereed to it- real sex, of course, is vaginal intercourse, wherein a large penis pounds a pussy very hard until they both cum. I asked her why, and she said that my little dick just didn't interest her at all. I was pleased that she told me this honestly, and also to know that she disregarded my useless little penis so effortlessly. So from then on, it was no blowjobs and no penetration for me. This is how cuckolds should have "sex".
I always asked, what does a bull gets being exclusive to a married woman?
Either people lying or the bull is getting played just like the husband.
Either people lying or the bull is getting played just like the husband.
