So obviously women chose a husband by way more than penis size. But when it comes to sex, I believe most women prefer a penis that “feels” big. Big is relative. Just like men have all different size penises, women have different sized vaginas. Yes they can stretch, but only to a certain degree. A girl who has a small vagina isn’t going to like having sex with a guy hung like a baseball bat. A girl with a big vagina isn’t going to like sex with a guy hung like a little boy.
So if a girl has a small vagina, an average guy is going to feel big to her. From talking to many women over the years, most like to feel full. Like every part is being touched. The first time I had sex with my wife (she was a virgin) she said it felt like I wasn’t all the way in. Over time we would realize she was a size queen. She didn’t know what it was, but she just felt like there was so much of her that was empty when my penis was in her. Yes I have a very small penis, but this hasn’t been the case with every single female.
Most women like to be stretched to a degree. But not all. Think of it this way. I love deep tissue massages. The deeper the better. I’ve actually only have found a few people that can go as deep as I like. I hate massages where they just gently rub your body. My bro in-law hates deep tissue massages. For him, the lighter of a massage the better. I’ve been told by a few massage therapist I took some of the most pressure of anyone they’ve ever massaged. My bro in-law and I are on completely different ends of the spectrum of what feels good to us. Some women prefer to be stretched a lot, some a little, and some just don’t like that feeling.
Another reason women don’t always admit it is because they don’t want to appear shallow or slutty. Many people often try to be politically correct. Some even believe it doesn’t matter even when they obviously get more pleasure from a bigger dick. It’s like the girl who says they want a guy who buys them flowers, opens their door, sends them sweet good morning text etc. and they have 5 of those guys already but they aren’t interested and they keep dating the “jerk”. Most these women are in denial and actually believe they want the “nice guy”. But for many women, what they say they want and what they actually respond to are two different things.