Why do many girls say "size doesn't matter", while the opposite is mostly true?

[jayandsue]

Honestly, for me, size really doesn't matter once you get to about 6 in. In fact if it's too long it becomes an impediment, and if it's too thick it can actually be painful. It's about their experience, connection and passion.

 

[rock]

I was virgin when I got married so my husband was all that I ever had up until I cheated on him when I was 33. We had been married 11 years before I had sex with 3 different black guys while my husband was out of town working. I found out then size did matter. The feeling a woman gets, at least me by being stretched and filled is so much different that it is almost indescribable

 

[Roberta_Balint]

size doesn't matter!​

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

So obviously women chose a husband by way more than penis size. But when it comes to sex, I believe most women prefer a penis that “feels” big. Big is relative. Just like men have all different size penises, women have different sized vaginas. Yes they can stretch, but only to a certain degree. A girl who has a small vagina isn’t going to like having sex with a guy hung like a baseball bat. A girl with a big vagina isn’t going to like sex with a guy hung like a little boy.

So if a girl has a small vagina, an average guy is going to feel big to her. From talking to many women over the years, most like to feel full. Like every part is being touched. The first time I had sex with my wife (she was a virgin) she said it felt like I wasn’t all the way in. Over time we would realize she was a size queen. She didn’t know what it was, but she just felt like there was so much of her that was empty when my penis was in her. Yes I have a very small penis, but this hasn’t been the case with every single female.

Most women like to be stretched to a degree. But not all. Think of it this way. I love deep tissue massages. The deeper the better. I’ve actually only have found a few people that can go as deep as I like. I hate massages where they just gently rub your body. My bro in-law hates deep tissue massages. For him, the lighter of a massage the better. I’ve been told by a few massage therapist I took some of the most pressure of anyone they’ve ever massaged. My bro in-law and I are on completely different ends of the spectrum of what feels good to us. Some women prefer to be stretched a lot, some a little, and some just don’t like that feeling.

Another reason women don’t always admit it is because they don’t want to appear shallow or slutty. Many people often try to be politically correct. Some even believe it doesn’t matter even when they obviously get more pleasure from a bigger dick. It’s like the girl who says they want a guy who buys them flowers, opens their door, sends them sweet good morning text etc. and they have 5 of those guys already but they aren’t interested and they keep dating the “jerk”. Most these women are in denial and actually believe they want the “nice guy”. But for many women, what they say they want and what they actually respond to are two different things.

It’s refreshing to see someone that actually gets it.

 

[YCoupleRo]

My girlfriend says that size matters, especially when it comes to blowjob. My girlfriend refuses to put her mouth anywhere near my cock but she loves worshiping big cocks. When it comes to intercourse everything is more or less ok, but she prefers being stretched by big, and, most important, thick cock.

 

[Loridan]

We do this with a guy we know. We've done it with him quite a few times but other than him we don't have much experience.
My wife's ex has a deep voice, we can assume he has a big dick.
Our friend has a big dick, bigger than me. Wife has never ever said anything about my size or any other guy's size.
It is very obvious she likes sex with our friend. I see her move and moan differently with him. She's never said anything about if he's bigger(he is) if he's better, nothing. She says it's different with him.
She can easily orgasm from oral but never had one with me doing her. He's got her off many times fucking her. After he's had her she has cum while I'm doing her and it's incredibly hot.
There's times she just lays there moaning while he pumps her slow. She's never done that with me.

 

[Jdingo619]

Alot of women who actually work in the porn industry who have been with the biggest guys and plenty of the average size guys say that they wouldn't go home to the bigger guys! Many of them say size doesn't matter and when you watch their interviews, they talk about getting stretched out and being sore from working with some guys, even havingtoget tightening procedures afterwards, and how they wouldn't date those guys in real life, then you understand that being the biggest guy is practically a curse!

From all of the interviews that I have seen and all of the conversations that I have had, in my opinion a solid, long lasting 8" inches to 8" 1/2 inches with good girth is probably going to be the most universal perfect size!

 

[bohica71u]

Size matters, but you’ve got to know what you’re doing. Plus, I prefer girth over length. But again, have some skills.

 

[mykoreanwife]

I think size doesn't matter if guy know what he is doing but even if he doesn't if he has nice size it can feel so good filling me