WHICH SPOUSE DO YOU PREFER TO DO THE TALKING?

It's most often true that, in online communication with couples, it's the husbands (or boyfriends) who are the Gatekeepers, which is their right, of course. Hubbies should be protective of their wives, since, in this kinky corner of the swinger lifestyle where cuckolds, stags, and hotwives abide, the wives are the ones being shared (and in rare cases, impregnated) with bulls, and black men.

So, the Questions are: As a single black male interested in meeting a sexy white wife for kinky sex, which spouse do you prefer to deal with, the Husband, or the Wife herself? Does it even matter to you?

The automatic Follow-up Question is: Does it annoy you to learn that sometimes a husband pretends to be the wife here online, or sometimes it's really just a homosexual male wanting to know how you would sexually use a wife he never had in the first place?




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My wife does the talking mostly. She is the undisputed boss in the bedroom and instructs me to help her-taking off her shirt and panties and after they are finished tells me to clean up her cummy pussy on my knees.
 

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I don't care who does the talking as long as they adhere to one rule and that rule is:

.The wife must be completely uninhibited to express and enjoy herself sexually however she desires in order to ensure the best possible experience!

I have never had a problem either! Now I have turned down numerous invites from couple's because it seemed like they had all kinds of hangups, insecurities, weird rules, and so forth so when it starts sounding wack then I respectfully let them know that I'm not gonna be a good fit for them but what I don't do is make plans then decide "this meet is probably going to be wack" and no show! When we chat and it sounds like it's not going to be good then I am quick to be honest and say that it's not my thing!

But I don't have a preference for who is doing the talking! I feel like the more cool that I am with hubby the better the atmosphere and opportunities to bang his wife into oblivion!♠️
I like your mindset. I'm trying to get my wife over the fence. We have been watching interracial videos for decades. I'm the alpha male. Not gay. I'm trying to do a FaceTime to get her more comfortable and move on to the next step. She is still hesitant but close. She would rather have me set it up. And that's a good thing. I'd rather do it myself.
 
It's most often true that, in online communication with couples, it's the husbands (or boyfriends) who are the Gatekeepers, which is their right, of course. Hubbies should be protective of their wives, since, in this kinky corner of the swinger lifestyle where cuckolds, stags, and hotwives abide, the wives are the ones being shared (and in rare cases, impregnated) with bulls, and black men.

So, the Questions are: As a single black male interested in meeting a sexy white wife for kinky sex, which spouse do you prefer to deal with, the Husband, or the Wife herself? Does it even matter to you?

The automatic Follow-up Question is: Does it annoy you to learn that sometimes a husband pretends to be the wife here online, or sometimes it's really just a homosexual male wanting to know how you would sexually use a wife he never had in the first place?




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For me I don't mind talking to neither .
I don't like husband pretending to be wife.
Other than that everything else is cool.
 
My wife does the talking mostly. She is the undisputed boss in the bedroom and instructs me to help her-taking off her shirt and panties and after they are finished tells me to clean up her cummy pussy on my knees.
You are the perfect couple . Thats how it should be
 
I don't care who does the talking as long as they adhere to one rule and that rule is:

.The wife must be completely uninhibited to express and enjoy herself sexually however she desires in order to ensure the best possible experience!

I have never had a problem either! Now I have turned down numerous invites from couple's because it seemed like they had all kinds of hangups, insecurities, weird rules and so forth so when it starts sounding wack then I respectfully let them know that I'm not gonna be a good fit for them but what I don't do is make plans then decide "this meet is probably going to be wack" and no show! When we chat and it sounds like it's not going to be good then I am quick to be honest and say that it's not my thing!

But I don't have a preference with who is doing the talking! In fact I feel like the more cool that I am with hubby the better the atmosphere and opportunities to bang his wife into oblivion!♠️
That rule is spot on
 
Because of the amount of dreamers :- guys claiming to be bulls, guys from 1000's of miles away, time wasters etc, Lisa doesn't bother chatting until I know the person is:- 1 genuinely experienced, 2 within meeting distance, 3 Lisa's type, ( athletic to average body and 8 inches minimum)
 
I'm OK with either. I've had the husband initiate contact and conversation and set up all of the arrangements a few times with no contact the wife until our first meeting. I've also had instances where the husband acted as gatekeeper initiating contact & vetting me, then "introducing" me to the wife who made further arrangements for meets.
 
When hubby is the one doing the talking and offering the company of his lovely wife I know that he's on board 100% percent all the way! When the wife is doing the talking I know that there is a chance that she could be holding back the full potential of her inner slut, so's not to shock or offend hubby who didn't know that she had such tendencies and cravings hidden inside of her!

Over the years I have had conversations with numerous hotwives who went to their first lifestyle event and went buckwild letting their inner slut off the leash and they will never forget the way that their husband's looked at them with Shame and disgusting despite the fact that it was their idea! That's a hotwifes worse nightmare, her hubby looking at her differently, feeling less loved, or desired by her man after she has been with another man!

So when a hubby in the lifestyle communicates with me about possibly getting together and having some fun with his hotwife I know that he wants to see her get satisfied and her inner hotwife potential blossom into a full blown black cock slut! If hubby is the one telling me how slutty she is, and how much she loves taking BBC, then for sure my only concern will be to give that woman as many orgasms as humanely possible making hubby her hero!♠️
 
Again, it's about entering what should ordinarily be the husband's province ( unless serious cuck games are being played ), and he has the right to set boundaries, and make his presence felt in the best interests of his wife. But I find it a turn-off if the hubby is too verbal. Whether he thinks he's some sort of porno director, giving instructions on how to move so that he captures the best angle on camera, or he decides to do a half-assed play-by-play commentary, I'd rather he not. Sure, the entire encounter is more for them than for the visitor. Still, accommodation should be granted to all parties involved. I don't want to hear him, is basically what I'm saying. Before and after chatting is fine. During the deed, let's just focus on her.
I agree except for when you said the encounter was more for us. imho its about her and whoever shes having sex with. I do recognize I have rights but in that situation i pretty much give up those rights. that, i keep interactions to a minimum. I like feeling dominated by black men so being mostly
silent keeps a facade of tension that i like
 
I prefer the wife to take over the conversation as early as possible in the interaction. The husband just tries to show he is in control, or at least that has been my experiences. I understand all three parties envolved have to jive but more so the bull and the wife imo.
 
In the beginning, I would initiate the contacts online and do the first talks and check outs. As we progressed, she became more involved earlier and eventually on her own. Now, either of us can initiate a contact but the last few guys she has dated have been men she met in public places. A couple were guys she met while we were out together. Fun stuff to watch.
 
I prefer starting conversations with the wife
Wife are straight forward, not too verbal, lots husbands in here are way too verbal,and that's a turn off for me, also some of the questions they ask are wacky. When wife takes over your chances of living that fantasy is better and a better turn on for a cuck I think.
In the beginning, I would initiate the contacts online and do the first talks and check outs. As we progressed, she became more involved earlier and eventually on her own. Now, either of us can initiate a contact but the last few guys she has dated have been men she met in public places. A couple were guys she met while we were out together. Fun stuff to watch.
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