As a Bull who has been in the game for 15 years I can assure you that you will lose opportunities to play and you will gain opportunities over things like: age, dick size, fitness, hight, location, your availability, hell you can even be overqualified if you are a high quality Bull!
The best way to have success in the lifestyle is to actually use a paid swinger site! Some will probably frown as this but I have Used AFF since I began in 2009 and 80% percent of all my lifestyle fun has come through that site! I also use SLS and Craigslist until it got ruined, as well as B2W. Now I use doublelist for the swingers adds instead of Craigslist. All of the porn stars I have met and played with were all swinger's at one point and I met them all on AFF. I have been so successful using swinger sites that I have never had to go to a swing club.
You will find that the best quality swinger's couple's who are the most successful in this lifestyle are people who focus on the individual quality of their Bull. I personally get couple's from the 20s to the 50s and I can tell you that it's based on what they see and read in my profile on AFF or my posts on this very very site!
One of the greatest potentials that you have in life is to distinguish yourself! As a guy in this lifestyle you can distinguish yourself as a high quality Bull whose smart, funny, fit, hung and handsome, well kept, with hot videos, sexy pictures, and a pretty good bio about yourself! On the swinger site I get contacted by couple's who's profile strictly states "no single males"! Also by couple's who profiles specifically state that they are seeking "White or Hispanic Bulls"! (When it says no black guys yet they are checking out your profile, that let's you know BBC is desired but forbidden!
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So don't sweat all that preference stuff because alot of those folks I can tell you rarely find exactly what they want. I saw a private hotwife video of a white couple having fun with a young black bull and he looked like he was between 18 to 20. He was trying to fuck the wife as the hubby cheered him on and encouraged him to "fuck that pussy"! The young guy kept having to stop, from trying to pound her, and kept adjusting the condom! Performance wise it looked pathetic because the Bull really couldn't get it together but honestly I don't even think that his performance was even main part of the kink or the attraction. I think that it was all about just being banged by a young guy!
There is a tall blonde QOS and she has to be at least 6' foot tall. I have seen multiple videos of this woman with Bulls who are clearly shorter that she is and these guys be banging the ******* out of her! I mean these guys be blowing her back out! She chooses these guys based on fitness and potential performance! She doesn't seem to care about age or hight and in all of her videos that I have seen these Bulls show up and show out!
