I think we all agree that stockings are a much sexier and attractive garment than pantyhose, however, there is nothing ugly or unfeminine on a pantyhose, even with the dress off! Some men love nylon due to the silky texture and the sensual barrier over the skin, others because it defines the leg's naturally feminine lines, provoking a slenderizing and elongating look that's undeniably attractive.
I'm not sure why you think a pantyhose looks crappy or weird on a confident sexy woman as you Erica, but I think you're probably underestimating how tempting and sexy it is for most men.
I too agree that a garter belt and stockings are sexier than pantyhose and stockings make me feel sexier. Stockings are more convenient in the lady's room than pantyhose, and for a quickie, but pantyhose have their advantages: they are more comfortable under jeans, they are warmer in the winter, and they give us a smooth fit from our waist to our toes, not to mention that some men prefer them.