I would not be so . . . appreciative, depending on ages. Obviously, if they are adults, it is their choice. But i do not need to hear about it. I am still their *******. It is my job to protect them. I do not want to hear about a 14 year old and rough sex.
I really think a girl, or a guy, needs to be ready to have sex mentally and understand it. Some women are ready at 16. Some are not ready until 36. Guys (except me) are not ready until 60! (lol). Just teasing. Parenting is not easy, but I would never encourage my ******* into sex as teenagers or anything younger. 20's and with a little world experience? That's another matter. If they want it. Call me old fashioned, but I will always teach my boys to treat women with respect, honor, and dignity, no matter what race of women they fall in love with. I will always teach my ******* the same. Enjoy whoever, but treat all with respect, no matter what your preference.