How important is sex with your spouse

[Sweetblonde]

Sex is a very important aspect in our relationship. I am not doing this to replace our sex I am doing to enhance it. And for me it does !!

 

[Suzybabe]

We are happily married and emotionally strong, but we haven't been sexually active with each other now for over three years.

 

[JenNWayne]

It's not that he is selfish and I do get into it but something happens just before it's time for me to cum and it goes away he isn't quick but I just don't get to cum

Aw, no woman should have to have that.

 

[Kingmess]

I don’t fuck all that much anymore , but when I do I make sure she cums very well.

 

[littledikk]

My husband is a once a monther. I'm a once an hourer

and that is the reason you are on here you sexy little thing to get what you cannot at home

 

[littledikk]

I think sex with my husband is important but not specifically intercourse or the physical act.

See, there is a mental aspect to this that typically gets ignored because everybody is so hyper-focused on the physical aspect. When I do have a lover, if I keep everything from hubby (sex and any stories) he feels left out and that causes issues. If I tell him a story and jack him off (even if I ruin it or milk him) then he still feels connected.

I know it sounds weird but that is how it works for us. Hubby can go long periods without physically having sex with me as long as he knows I am being taken care of and he gets to hear, watch or whatever. We're found this works best for us and has prevented any issues with hubby abstaining.

that is as near has you can get to the perfect marriage BRAVO to the pair of you

 

[littledikk]

Margarita, very thoughtful post...........

my sentiments entirely

 

[Motorino]

Enjoy your day and stay healthy in the sex world

 

[littledikk]

What would like to know? He has a sex drive ten times higher than his wifes, and wanted to fuck twice a day everyday, she got to the point she couldn’t do it any longer. So rather than him fuck ****** or have affairs, they thought they’d find a married chic looking for sex on the side.
We responded to their advert, they had no idea what a cuck, bull or hotwife was, but once they realised, he could fuck my wife with no strings attached, and we were all std free, his wife preferred he just played with us.
We have become really good friends, and do dinners, drinks etc. and usually head back to their place. She enjoys watching him fuck, while she plays with herself, occassionally joins in, and sometimes even cleans my wife at the end.
Nothing like watching her lick up all her hubby’s cum off my wife, then her lean over and deeply tongue kiss me and snowball his cum in front him and my wife?

now that is some seriously hot fucking sex going on there, so great that you all found one another may you long continue to enjoy your selves incredible post one of the best I have ever read. Got my little impotent dick throbbing in my jeans thanks for sharing

 

[Sunshine girl]

We have never been that well matched with sex. In the early days it didn’t bother me because he’s a really good man and we have a beautiful life. With first hubby it was always amazing and he was a master with an incredible build. Dumb as a bag of rocks tho So I did that whole “marry for love” thing this time. He’s all about vanilla when he actually gets around to thinking about it maybe three times a year. So...sex with him is not important. But sex is lol. I prefer a fwb and I am not in to one time casual hookups, but these days finding the time and opportunity or right situation has become a challenge. So.....toys and porn it is for this girl.

 

[Harduk]

We have never been that well matched with sex. In the early days it didn’t bother me because he’s a really good man and we have a beautiful life. With first hubby it was always amazing and he was a master with an incredible build. Dumb as a bag of rocks tho So I did that whole “marry for love” thing this time. He’s all about vanilla when he actually gets around to thinking about it maybe three times a year. So...sex with him is not important. But sex is lol. I prefer a fwb and I am not in to one time casual hookups, but these days finding the time and opportunity or right situation has become a challenge. So.....toys and porn it is for this girl.

Oh my that’s such a pity with that amazing body it deserves tons of cock

 

[FW wife Benefit]

Each couple has its own needs. My wife comes every time, several times. Don’t get stuck into others points of view, especially in a site like this with such a big bias towards marital unsatisfaction

 

[Bigfunfun]

Married for years he is a great provider but can't make me cum Like I need and or desire to I just need feedback please ladies and gentlemen your thoughts

My wife let’s me jerk off on her every week, and it’s very important to me that she does.

 

[hungteacher]

Do you think I'm just bored with the same thing ?

I don't think you are bored, I havent read the other comments yet. But I think that there is just a communication gap. A lot of the couples that I talk to don't need another man in their relationship for sex, they just need me to help facilitate that sex talk. I get it, being in a romantic relationship you get very "vulnerable" so its hard.

 

[hungteacher]

We have stopped having penetrative sex for about 18 months, and in fact my husband has just been caged after much trepidation and hesitation. However, it is still important for us to connect physically and make love in other ways. He uses his hands, mouth, and tongue on me, and penetrates me with BBC dildos, anal beads, etc. I used to give him handjobs or have him masturbate on his own. Now that he is caged, we are planning to let him out once a week for masturbation, cleaning, and shaving.

That is wonderful to hear. A lot of the husbands in the couples I have worked with wanted to be caged and controlled. The key for overall male health is just make sure he does release sperm every so often. I have read some medical studies that say at least 1 time every 3 or 4 weeks. The act of orgasming for a man releases both endorphins in the brain but it also helps with ******* flow.

 

[hungteacher]

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Yes go ahead!

 

[hungteacher]

Very important 33 yrs and counting!

CONGRATS!!! I think that worth clapping for.

 

[emiliecolain]

Le sexe que j'ai avec mon mari est très bon.
Mais mon mari n'a pas le pouvoir et la domination de la BBC.