How do you view your husband or significant other now that you had BBC?

My husband begged me to try black guys, after constant pushing I finally did. I left my husband 3 years after I first tried BBC and 2 years after I decided I didnt want to be with white guys again. I knew after the first few times that something inside me was changing. I then met my now partner and as we grew more and more, I knew it was time to leave my husband. He regretted getting me involved with black guys, but for me a new chapter started. I have been black only for 9 years and have no regrets
 
My husband begged me to try black guys, after constant pushing I finally did. I left my husband 3 years after I first tried BBC and 2 years after I decided I didnt want to be with white guys again. I knew after the first few times that something inside me was changing. I then met my now partner and as we grew more and more, I knew it was time to leave my husband. He regretted getting me involved with black guys, but for me a new chapter started. I have been black only for 9 years and have no regrets
This should be a cautionary tale for over eager husbands. Possibly also inspiration for under eager wives.
 

tomtomjim

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My now ex-wife put it to me like this: Her view of me changed in the sense that she could openly admit she has always had an urge to seek out other men on the side when in relationships and the root realization was guys she was in relationships with she loved but she couldn't be satisfied with just one man. And she was drawn to young taller athletes. So after that talk we worked it out and decided it would be mutually enjoyable for her to take lover(s) that we both picked out. We chose black because white guys might be too everyday and vanilla. After a brief search and posting pics we found someone that fit the specs: tall, fit, alpha, professional and hung. After the first time we realized how much she enjoyed it and needed it. Her view of me then went to she loves me more than ever, we grew closer but she needed me to accept how much she loved having sex with her bull(s) and she mainly wanted to fuck them not me, though occasionally she would give in to me. When we did have sex afterwards she said didn't enjoy it as much as her bulls and loved them. We didn't see my role as sexual provider but as mate faciliator and we both agreed to work on making time for him to come over, often so we could all get used to our changing roles and feelings. She liked that she saw me as submissive to him and now saw me as a helper for them when they were together since it was partly my idea, when he was around, i wasn't her husband but more of a sexual helper to do whatever was needed to make them comfortable and help them have sex since we both admitted we both thought often of his cock pumping her full of cum. Which she further said she also changed how she saw me as a submissive less dominate husband in a good way so that i could concentrate on other things while her bull took care of her sexual needs. She never loved me more or felt closer to me when I would be near them and she was getting pounded by her bull and loved hearing me tell them how beautiful they looked
ex wife , no wonder and a good thing for you
 
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