How do you view your husband or significant other now that you had BBC?

When I read the posts from women who don't have sex or have very limited sex with their husbands kind of perplexes me. It makes me wonder how strong is their relationship. I am obviously ok with my wife fucking other guys since she's been doing it for several years. But if she ever told me I couldn't have sex with her or could do anything but penetration I'm afraid that would be the end of our relationship. Sometimes our best sex is after she has enjoyed some BBC. Now I'm not knocking what people do in their relationship, to each their own, but why stay married? Having said that if the husband is ok with it and accepts it then it is was it is and everyone is happy. But I wonder how many husbands are truly ok with their wife not wanting to fuck them?
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Exactly the same thoughts here. We both fuck other people, but me and my wife are primary and always come first. If that changes, I seriously doubt we could stay married.

If either of us feels any distance or loss of sexuality between us, we stop immediately and re-evaluate why we are doing this. Our entire goal is to enhance sex between us, not replace our partner.

Our experiences leave us both sexually charged and wanting each other more.
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This is exactly how I feel about this topic.. I am NOT submissive, nor a poor sexual partner.. we want to explore OUR sexual fantasies together. My beautiful bride of over 30 years has been a 'Hotwife' for the last 5 years.. but just had her first BBC last may..it took a long time for her to try it.. WE do this together... WE DO THIS for OUR fun.. One of the best aspects is our 'reconnecting' and 'reclaiming' after her encounters with her new lover. Since we began this adventure, she is much more open and comfortable talking about her sexuality.. our communication is the best it has ever been.. If for some reason she lost interest in me.. then I think that would be the end of our marriage..
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Sorry some of these comments are out of this world honestly. If my wife said she wouldn't want to touch be I'd be kicking her out the door for a start . Weird . Obviously this is sissy boys who like being humiliated . Definitely isn't for me not my end game for this fetish .

First of all you have to have a real strong relationship with your partner before even considering this . Me and my wife have an AMAZING sex life . We have great sex . We don't role play this because our sex life's boring or not good . We do it because it Purley naughty and you shouldn't be doing it (the taboo) if our sex life was shitty I definitely wouldn't be into doing this lifestyle that's for sure . If we want to do this in real life one day we not doing for it for the wrong reasons . Doing it for the right reasons . We doing it to be naughty and explore because we like pushing limits and it's a naughty secret nobody knows about it gives us a kick out of life . Not because our sex life isn't great that would be the wrong reason . I wouldn't be with my wife in the first place if I couldn't satisfy her needs . We done everything you could think of in the bedroom whatever she does in the future with a bbc wouldn't ever be nothing she hasn't done with me before . We are strong we have a great sex life . Again we want to do this in the future for the right reason no the wrong ones . I couldn't ever imagine my wife not having sex with me anymore if that was the case she never loved in the first place or attracted to me . I'm a stag more then a cuck. I'd be involved in the threesome anyway MFM and I probably wouldn't meet the same bull twice because that's when ******* could get complicated but you set the rules from the start and the reasons why you are doing this in the first place . The end game isn't to lose your wife or love or loss of sex . It's to make it even better then ever
 
Wife write
I love my new husband and
belong to him. He replaced and demoted my former husband. Fromer husband i see as my little baby daugther. I am very happy that "she" accepts to be a little sissy. Also that "she" sees my black baby as his sibling and that they both share the baby room. My two daughters are also pregnant and they are happy that their former ******* is now a baby girl and is looking forward to more siblings.
 
Wife write
I love my new husband and
belong to him. He replaced and demoted my former husband. Fromer husband i see as my little baby daugther. I am very happy that "she" accepts to be a little sissy. Also that "she" sees my black baby as his sibling and that they both share the baby room. My two daughters are also pregnant and they are happy that their former ******* is now a baby girl and is looking forward to more siblings.
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I have to admit, as a hotwife, I'm a bit shocked by some of the comments here. I'm not having sex with other man to humiliate my husband.
This story have start some month ago, he asked me if I would say yes to sex with an other man.
My husband's fantasy is to watch me being fucked by other man. As a semi-professional photographer he enjoys taking photos of me with other man as well as with himself. I think the fact that the man is a black man enhance is fantasy, with the contrast and the taboo.
I really enjoy that situation, and I have had some great sex moments. Certainly the fact to being fuck by a stranger while your husband is watching is a powerful experience. I also found it really exciting The fact to play the "pornstar" for him, respecting his willing, having the cock in my mouth with the facial expression he wants for the photo.
But it's never about humiliating him, or whatever. He is the man I love, the man I love to have sex with. Cuckolding is just a fantasy we have from time to time
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It all depends on how you look at it. My man is the king and not a sissy at all very dom. I'm lucky and so in love with him that it's even an option. He tells me when I can and can't what I can and can't do. If he wants to see me only suck then I only suck. I don't get pleasure unless it pleases him. It's made be feel hotter towards him especially when he looks at me in the eyes while someone is coming into me... I know I'm only getting filled like that because he is letting it happen.
 
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It all depends on how you look at it. My man is the king and not a sissy at all. I'm lucky and so in love with him that it's even an option. He tells me when I can and can't what I can and can't do. If he wants to see me only suck then I only suck. I don't get pleasure unless it pleases him. It's made be feel hotter towards him especially when he looks at me in the eyes while someone is coming into me... I know I'm only getting filled like that because he is letting it happen.
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I can relate to what you said about never having an orgasm while your husband was fucking me. I never had an orgasm from my ex-husband either, or any of the other white guys I'd been with before him. So you can only assume how surprising it was for me to finally experience my first orgasm through cock and it happened on my very first time with a black man, and not only did I have one orgasm but 2 more before he unloaded his own in me. In fact, I've been with a number of different black men since and I've never failed to have multiple orgasms with every black guy I've ever been with. Amazing huh..?
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I love my husband more than ever as he is the perfect man for me allowing me to have bbc and encouraging me to enjoy the sex I get from bbc, except that since we met my first black lover I have realised that he is lacking in the penis department and from the first time my bbc lover penetrating my pussy giving me my first vaginal orgasm due to both the thickness and length of his penis. We now have the best situation you could wish for. I have the perfect husband. Then we both have a wonderful sex life with me getting totally satisfied sexually by my lover , my husband gets to enjoy watching and masturbates watching my lover and I having sex.
 
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I love my husband more than ever as he is the perfect man for me , except that since we met my first black lover I have realised that he is lacking in the penis department and from the first time my bbc lover penetrating my pussy giving me my first vaginal orgasm due to both the thickness and length of his penis. We now have the best situation you could wish for. I have the perfect husband. Then we both have a wonderful sex life with me getting totally satisfied sexually by my lover , my husband gets to enjoy watching and masturbates watching my lover and I having sex.
Your hubby must of sucked in bed
 
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