Because we have had men live with us, it would be a bit tough to hide our lifestyle. We are very open. When we have gone to the adult theater, we have met male friends of both mine and husband's. And they have fucked me, and they have told others. My mom-in-law knew that my husband's ex-wife slept with others, and she and my *******-in-law expected that I would, too. When we had a man living with us, my best friend lived with us as well, for a time, and she got to know our live-in very well, and her parents and her sister found out from her about our lifestyle.
My own sister knew about my sexual past, and when we had Black Men living with us showed interest in the lifestyle. Soon after that, my sister-in-law asked me about our lifestyle and got into it shortly afterward. My husband's ******* was dating a Black Man and invited me and my ******* to join her and her boyfriend. And we did. My other two sister-in-laws asked me a lot of questions before they got into the lifestyle. So, it happens. Three of my nieces are currently dating Black Men and no one has said anything negative about it.
Thanksgiving at our house this year was awesome. We had our ******* over and I had family over, and our live-in, who is Black, invited several of his single friends to join us. We had a full house. My *******, my husband's *******, my sister, my sister-in-laws, my nieces, my best friend and her ******* and I kept disappearing throughout the day to spend time with our live-in and his friends. My mom-in-law even got to have a little fun as well, with a younger Black Man. We had a lot to be thankful for, and Thanksgiving is a time to give thanks. And that's just what we did.
One of the women that my husband works with came over for dinner a few months ago and asked a lot of questions about our lifestyle. We were very open and honest in answering her questions. She was very interested since her ex-husband hadn't been very sexual. This woman my husband still works with has been in gang bangs we have had at our house since that time. She admitted that she had always had an interest and was happy that we were so open about it. Recently, this same woman that my husband works with , told us that her ******* had some questions as well. And we are having my husband's co-worker and her ******* over this week for dinner.
Another of my friends has always dated Black Men, and her ******* is half Black and half white. Her ******* is a very beautiful woman.
My ******* and our live-in worked on a house owned by my husband's boss a couple weeks ago. My husband's boss is white and she knows that our live-in, who works with my husband, lives with us. She asked some questions and I was honest with her. My husband's boss is divorced and is a very high class type of woman, yet she admitted that she has a hidden slutty side of herself that she has wished that she could let out. My husband's boss and I went to a local swing club a week ago, just her and I, and she let her slutty side of herself out, in a big way.
Before me and my husband's boss went to the swing club, I called one of my Black lovers and asked him to be there. And he showed up. My lover was my husband's boss's first at the club. He is Black, tall, stocky and very well hung. My lover rocked my husband's boss's world. My husband's boss ended up fucking several other men at the club. I would never tell anyone we know about my husband's boss's new life, but I am glad she trusted me. And I am glad that she trusted me enough to ask questions in the first place.
My husband and I, living as open as we do, has allowed others the opportunity to get answers to questions they have always had, and the opportunity to play and know we not only understand but accept them and their desires. Having relationships with Black Men is not as stigmatic as it used to be, thankfully.
My ******* lives with us, and he knows of mine and my husband's lifestyle, but we don't do anything overtly sexual around him. My ******* does know that I have relationships with other men, but he doesn't want to know, and I don't tell him, any details. My ******* sees me kiss and hug our live-in, and he knows that me and our live-in sleep together, but we haven't made it out to be something taboo, or anything. My ******* has only said that he likes to know that I am happy, with whatever choices I make.
I have never felt it was right to hide who you are or who you love.