I understand your comment, but from my own perspective, i am only 5ft 5, usually 120 lbs, so when in a intimate relationship, things at times can show that such as myself, getting pushed onto a bed, held very tightly, kissed with a passion, that takes your breath away, makes me feel very submissive, so, as long as its done with feeling, wanting and passion, i have no problem of knowing i am submissive and showing it.
There are quotes that say that the white women have to pay for the oppression black people suffered for years, as Ive quoted on other forums, white women were treated, very much the same in years gone by.
So, being put accross a black guys lap and spanked vertually to the point of crying, i look as being there for his enjoyment, where videos show black vuys smacking a white girls boobs, could show disrespect for the white girl, but, when held , stripped, and made love too, i know i have been with a real man, to the point, where being "Owned" is with that man that i know wants me again and again and again