lol You're no fool. Simply more homble in approach. I can't even spell homble, its just something I've never been
You're sentimental and there's nothing wrong with that. Your age doesn't make your opinion any more valid than it does invalid. As someone might think that a young person is to young to understand, someone might think that an older person is to old to be in touch with the times. The truth is that if there's value in a message you have to look for it, and sometimes its there, and sometimes it isnt. Depends on the person not the amount of birthdays they've had.
I preach to Men the value of being a MAN. Thats what I do. I find men in general to be too god damn soft. You'll see less of that on a IR site because blackmen as a race dont have a "soft" issue. But in Western countries Soft is a great word to describe your average man both in body and in mind.
Without turning this into a E-Book I'll say this. Anyone who is willing to forsake Beauty to replace it with Personality is doing their shopping wrong. Thats like those strange people that order a hotdog and then dont eat the fuckin bun.
You're doing it WRONG! If people in general up'd their standards they'd tell themselves to be better on their own end, so that they could seek what they truly want. You have a unique reason for going about it the way that you do, and if you're down with the tubby more soft-bodied chicks then at least you arent doing it for the same reason most people do it. Which is because they themselves have lowered their own standards.