I met a Hotwife/stag couple last week. They were visiting from out of town and we made plans to meet. Hotwife and her hubby were very cool and friendly and we decide to take the fun further. We go to their room and have the most awesome sex. She came many, many times and squirted everywhere. Her husband watched from the side. We made plans to meet again the next time she is in the city. Well, since that time she’s been very into me and texting telling me how much she misses me and she’s thinking of me. I don’t know what to think about it as it feels like she’s crossing a line emotionally. There’s another Hotwife I play with and she tells me often how unsatisfied she is with her and her husband’s sex life. She wants us to have sex behind his back (she isn’t the first that has told me that) and I tell her I’m not comfortable with it if he doesn’t know. As a bull, I want to provide an amazing experience, and I do, but the last thing I want to do is get in the way of a relationship. Has anyone ever experienced this? How did you handle it? Hotwives, have you ever started having feelings for your bull?
Yep numerous times! As a Bull a real Bull YOU SHUT THAT ******* DOWN IMMEDIATELY!!!
.A real Bull understands that he is an honored guest who has been invited into someones relationship and that his first responsibility is: to be a friend to the both parties, respect both parties, earn and uphold the trust they give you, and do your part as the Bull to help them fulfill their fantasies!
.Your second responsibility is to provide the best possible experience and leave that woman well satisfied beyond their expectations and leave her wanting more! Much more!
.The number one golden rule of swinging is "No cheating"! There is absolutely no reason to steal from a man who is already openly sharing his treasure with you!
Now here's my thing and why I have experienced this numerous times. When I fuck I try to be her best partner ever. Like those old arcade games where you have 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place where you get to input your initials in the game. When I fuck I'm aiming for that 1st place in her mind. I'm deliberately trying to knock that guy out of the first slot and take his place so that's the energy and effort that I'm putting forth. Yes it works but it will also have some women losing focus and in their feelings.
Next thing you know you are fucking them and they are whispering how they are falling in love with you. I immediately tell them "Stop"! "Don't do it"! Most of them were able to pull it together and we continued having fun and some decided to stop seeing each other altogether and that's fine too!
Just an example of how creeping behind hubby's back can go I had a hispanic couple and the wife started creeping with a Bull behind her hubby's back. Since she was regularly only seeing me and the other guy when her hubby caught on to her cheating for some reason he thought it was with me. He came to my house late at night and called me to come outside and he didn't sound happy. When I met him out in the street this guy said "man to man, be honest, are you seeing my wife behind my back"? I told him that I wouldn't do that to him because of respect for him and his wife, and that there is no need to sneak around with her either! Then he just said "OK then it's the other guy then" and he got in his car and left! I'm telling you if I had been cheating with his wife and said yes we would have been out on the street trading punches!
When I am asked by someone's wife or girlfriend if I would I see them in secret behind their mans back I say No! If a woman starts expressing feelings for me during our play time or any other time I tell them to stop
️ that I cannot accept that from them and that I am not going to violate the trust of her man. See as a Bull you may have to think straight for the both of you if she starts slipping emotionally then you are the last line of defense!
