Mine sometimes wanted me to watch othertimes didnt want me in the room. Usually if she was developing feelings she didn't want me in the room so she could get comfortable telling her lover how she felt without worrying about my feelings. Later as things progressed with regulars and she felt comfortable saying things out loud I would be allowed back in to witness, assist and then hear them tell me how things were progressing i.e. love, ownership, something portentially hurtful I would need to deal with. So both were a double edged sword. But in the beginning with a new guy It was mandatory Im there, not only for her protection but also to witness them mating so I can observe and discuss it with her afterwards: what she liked, didnt like, what she wants. Typically, she would question me to make justify her feelings and what happened. Like it was really good, really so so, not that good. He did a good job, was into her, her into him etc. And she loved hearing me recount after he left how good and wonderful they or she looked while he was thrusting his massive cock inside her and fucking her so good. If I wasnt there, I would just hear her screams and moans but to her credit, when i wasn't present, she made sure to be extra loud if she was really enjoying it so I would hear them and when they were done, come in to service them and make sure they enjoyed each other by asking questions: how was my wifes pussy, how was his cock, etc. Not watching vs watching still resulted in prep, servicing, questions for humiliation and reenforcement and me submitting in some way to them whether wearing panties, cleaning the house or wiping down the cum stains around the house.