Why it’s fair that a cuckold is denied sex

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ModernMarriage

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There is a reason you agreed to have sex with other men in the first place, right? He couldn’t satisfy you the way you needed to be satisfied. Because let’s face it, when having sex, he is getting all the pleasure, and you’re feeling unpleasured, empty and unhappy, and that’s not fair. So, because of this, he feels inadequate and “gives”, or rather prefers and desires that you find that satisfaction with someone else.

Well, here’s the thing. Yes, it is agreed that you find pleasure with someone else, but is it still fair that you have sex with him at all? No, it’s not fair. Why? Because it’s still you giving him pleasure with your body, and he is not returning the favor. Sure, he could eat you out, but that’s not the same and we all know it. However, it is completely fair that you at least give him a handjob. After all, he at least knows where he falls short, and agrees to the terms of you being with other men.

Now I know it is not fair that mom nature gave hubs a small wiener, but it’s not our fault either. And it isn’t our fault that we are designed to require more, otherwise, hysteria sets in (proven fact). So, while it isn’t hubs fault for being inadequate don’t think it is still fair that you give him sex. No, that is not the case. He can’t give you pleasure, don’t use your body to give him pleasure. However, he is “letting” and desiring that you still receive that pleasure, so yes it is fair that you at least still allow him to receive pleasure as well, and your hand is perfectly suitable for that job. And hubs should also have porn, and be able to watch you, because again part of his pleasure in all of this is that he gets to watch what he can’t accomplish. So, to break it down:
1. Watching
2. Masturbating
3. Handjobs
4. Porn
That’s all a cuckold needs or deserves.

And the same goes with having babies. If hubs isn’t enough to satisfy you, why would you want to pass that on to your children. Give your children genes to be proud of and genes they can properly use.
 
I am happy that my wife's pussy is black-only. So, I have my personal porn star getting BBC. Also, I was relieved that I did not need to compete sexually with black men. Because of my hunger for proving oral service, she feeds me BBC and also her cum filled pussy, so I am very happy with that. Because of my perverse nature, submission needs, and exhibitionist tendencies, being made to kneel before them as they sit on the couch, watching and commenting, my supervised masturbation is intense. Let's not forget the strapon sex, as she fucks me! And she has him fuck me. Now compare that to the traditional marriage when couples married for 40+ years have how much sex? My wife's sister has not had sex in two years. I am in sexual heaven! And so is my wife!! Look at her...I could never do that for her.
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ModernMarriage said:
So, to break it down:
1. Watching
2. Masturbating
3. Handjobs
4. Porn
That’s all a cuckold needs or deserves.
And the same goes with having babies. If hubs isn’t enough to satisfy you, why would you want to pass that on to your children. Give your children genes to be proud of and genes they can properly use.
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.....So THAT is your logic, huh? A marriage has many variables to it, sex is only one of many. Sounds more like you need to "train" your man to please you. My experiences find that every woman is different to some degree in how she prefers sexual satisfaction. You need to show him what works for you, and if its the Big Black Cock that only works, that's fine, just don't deny HIM his own occasional pleasure. Afterall, he's a home provider, puts food on the table, provides you security, listens when you have problems, a handyman, etc. And, an occasional handjob is the thanks you show him for not being able to please you on the sheets?
.....If he's enjoying this treatment, that's one thing, but, if he's asking to occasionally have sex with you, and you're denying him that, that's another. What are his attributes? Why did you marry him? Build him up instead of breaking him down ... or divorce him, unless you know you need that security blanket he provides you while you screw around. And biracial children face a lot more challenges than any white male born with a small penis, if that's your worry. Imagine becoming a single mom when that baby arrives ... very few white guys gonna stay around to face the embarrassments that would bring him by his family and friends.
.....Think you might wish to go back to the drawing board and think this one out a bit further.
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If one believes his/her fetish is the gospel truth, then listen, “The only thing the black man has over me is his big dick.” I’m not asserting this to be true; there are many of every creed who are smarter, stronger, wealthier, etc; but one might want to have the confidence to believe that, if that same person wants to hold on to the respect of his lady. The day she stops the sex, nor has orgasms, on account of the big dick is the day i walk. Listen, If its your thing to get dominated and hold your man to a submissive platform, go with it - be happy; but understand this is what works for you. It is not how others see it. Its often times, that the respect and sexual energy a couple shares, is a cornerstone of thier reality. Try the “imo.” Instead of being the patron saint of your version of cuckolding.
 
ModernMarriage said:
There is a reason you agreed to have sex with other men in the first place, right? He couldn’t satisfy you the way you needed to be satisfied. Because let’s face it, when having sex, he is getting all the pleasure, and you’re feeling unpleasured, empty and unhappy, and that’s not fair. So, because of this, he feels inadequate and “gives”, or rather prefers and desires that you find that satisfaction with someone else.

Well, here’s the thing. Yes, it is agreed that you find pleasure with someone else, but is it still fair that you have sex with him at all? No, it’s not fair. Why? Because it’s still you giving him pleasure with your body, and he is not returning the favor. Sure, he could eat you out, but that’s not the same and we all know it. However, it is completely fair that you at least give him a handjob. After all, he at least knows where he falls short, and agrees to the terms of you being with other men.

Now I know it is not fair that mom nature gave hubs a small wiener, but it’s not our fault either. And it isn’t our fault that we are designed to require more, otherwise, hysteria sets in (proven fact). So, while it isn’t hubs fault for being inadequate don’t think it is still fair that you give him sex. No, that is not the case. He can’t give you pleasure, don’t use your body to give him pleasure. However, he is “letting” and desiring that you still receive that pleasure, so yes it is fair that you at least still allow him to receive pleasure as well, and your hand is perfectly suitable for that job. And hubs should also have porn, and be able to watch you, because again part of his pleasure in all of this is that he gets to watch what he can’t accomplish. So, to break it down:
1. Watching
2. Masturbating
3. Handjobs
4. Porn
That’s all a cuckold needs or deserves.

And the same goes with having babies. If hubs isn’t enough to satisfy you, why would you want to pass that on to your children. Give your children genes to be proud of and genes they can properly use.
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Wow...that is a lot of BS if you ask me. Specially the baby part.
 
MacNfries said:
.....So THAT is your logic, huh? A marriage has many variables to it, sex is only one of many. Sounds more like you need to "train" your man to please you. My experiences find that every woman is different to some degree in how she prefers sexual satisfaction. You need to show him what works for you, and if its the Big Black Cock that only works, that's fine, just don't deny HIM his own occasional pleasure. Afterall, he's a home provider, puts food on the table, provides you security, listens when you have problems, a handyman, etc. And, an occasional handjob is the thanks you show him for not being able to please you on the sheets?
.....If he's enjoying this treatment, that's one thing, but, if he's asking to occasionally have sex with you, and you're denying him that, that's another. What are his attributes? Why did you marry him? Build him up instead of breaking him down ... or divorce him, unless you know you need that security blanket he provides you while you screw around. And biracial children face a lot more challenges than any white male born with a small penis, if that's your worry. Imagine becoming a single mom when that baby arrives ... very few white guys gonna stay around to face the embarrassments that would bring him by his family and friends.
.....Think you might wish to go back to the drawing board and think this one out a bit further.
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I know there are a lot of real people here, with real stories, but I do also believe a lot of people engage in a lot of fantasy, the more extreme the fantasy, the more exciting it is to them. Like the guy saying his wife wanted to castrate him, and asking if the board thought it was a good idea.

I also chuckle when I see people say that white women should no longer have children with white men, ignoring the fact that if that were the case, there would no longer be "white" women for "black" men, that all babies born would be biracial, just varying colors of brown.

I've been here yes than a year, but I've learned to take what I read here with a grain of salt in a lot of cases.
 
slinky1 said:
and my wife, ex's and the men/bulls who have had sex with them have never seen me as such
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..../..'Nuff said right there ... "my wife & ex's" ... don't you think? Think about what you just posted, slinky1. Maybe YOU don't mind going through multiple divorces, or having to find suitable mates to marry, but what you just said proves that cuckolding, at least the way you've done it, doesn't seem to work. Why would you keep repeating a process that keeps ending the same way? How many children and support do you have to incur before you finally say "this just isn't working out"?
......."Pathetic" might not be the appropriate word, but something between naïve & stupid probably IS.
.......What you might consider doing is starting a thread in which you attest to trying cuckolding with multiple wives, and the fact that they all have met in failure, and then ask posters what they think you might have done wrong or differently. Just maybe you'll not repeat your processes the same way in the future.
.......Good luck ... sounds like you can use some.
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MacNfries said:
..../..'Nuff said right there ... "my wife & ex's" ... don't you think? Think about what you just posted, slinky1. Maybe YOU don't mind going through multiple divorces, or having to find suitable mates to marry, but what you just said proves that cuckolding, at least the way you've done it, doesn't seem to work. Why would you keep repeating a process that keeps ending the same way? How many children and support do you have to incur before you finally say "this just isn't working out"?
......."Pathetic" might not be the appropriate word, but something between naïve & stupid probably IS.
.......What you might consider doing is starting a thread in which you attest to trying cuckolding with multiple wives, and the fact that they all have met in failure, and then ask posters what they think you might have done wrong or differently. Just maybe you'll not repeat your processes the same way in the future.
.......Good luck ... sounds like you can use some.
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I think you'll find the Family Law Courts are clogged with divorces, custody battles that have nothing to do with cuckolding. FYI seeing you seem to know all, and all my repeated mistakes in life, I am 51yo, was first cuckolded by my first GF at 22yo, who I went on to marry, we were together for 17 years. At 40yo I met a stunning 26yo, who I was engaged to marry, but went back to her ex, and at 41yo, I met my current wife and been happily together for the last 10 years. I have only had 2 ex's in 33 years of adulthood (not really a train wreck as you've implied) and actually only had penetrative sex with 5 women in total my whole life. In those 33 years my 3 partners have had sex with other men on and off over those relationships and all have enjoyed it as I have.

So, I think you need to pull your head in, before labelling others you know nothing about. We have a nickname for your types. 'know all, fuck all' :)
 
ModernMarriage said:
There is a reason you agreed to have sex with other men in the first place, right? He couldn’t satisfy you the way you needed to be satisfied. Because let’s face it, when having sex, he is getting all the pleasure, and you’re feeling unpleasured, empty and unhappy, and that’s not fair. So, because of this, he feels inadequate and “gives”, or rather prefers and desires that you find that satisfaction with someone else.

Well, here’s the thing. Yes, it is agreed that you find pleasure with someone else, but is it still fair that you have sex with him at all? No, it’s not fair. Why? Because it’s still you giving him pleasure with your body, and he is not returning the favor. Sure, he could eat you out, but that’s not the same and we all know it. However, it is completely fair that you at least give him a handjob. After all, he at least knows where he falls short, and agrees to the terms of you being with other men.

Now I know it is not fair that mom nature gave hubs a small wiener, but it’s not our fault either. And it isn’t our fault that we are designed to require more, otherwise, hysteria sets in (proven fact). So, while it isn’t hubs fault for being inadequate don’t think it is still fair that you give him sex. No, that is not the case. He can’t give you pleasure, don’t use your body to give him pleasure. However, he is “letting” and desiring that you still receive that pleasure, so yes it is fair that you at least still allow him to receive pleasure as well, and your hand is perfectly suitable for that job. And hubs should also have porn, and be able to watch you, because again part of his pleasure in all of this is that he gets to watch what he can’t accomplish. So, to break it down:
1. Watching
2. Masturbating
3. Handjobs
4. Porn
That’s all a cuckold needs or deserves.

And the same goes with having babies. If hubs isn’t enough to satisfy you, why would you want to pass that on to your children. Give your children genes to be proud of and genes they can properly use.
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Such bullshit.
 
slinky1 said:
We have a nickname for your types. 'know all, fuck all'
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well, so sorry to have "insulted you" ... there was simply too much in your profile info for me to read it all ... (hint, hint)

Fuck you very much for your feedback and have a nice day! ... ;)
 
ModernMarriage said:
There is a reason you agreed to have sex with other men in the first place, right? He couldn’t satisfy you the way you needed to be satisfied. Because let’s face it, when having sex, he is getting all the pleasure, and you’re feeling unpleasured, empty and unhappy, and that’s not fair. So, because of this, he feels inadequate and “gives”, or rather prefers and desires that you find that satisfaction with someone else.

Well, here’s the thing. Yes, it is agreed that you find pleasure with someone else, but is it still fair that you have sex with him at all? No, it’s not fair. Why? Because it’s still you giving him pleasure with your body, and he is not returning the favor. Sure, he could eat you out, but that’s not the same and we all know it. However, it is completely fair that you at least give him a handjob. After all, he at least knows where he falls short, and agrees to the terms of you being with other men.

Now I know it is not fair that mom nature gave hubs a small wiener, but it’s not our fault either. And it isn’t our fault that we are designed to require more, otherwise, hysteria sets in (proven fact). So, while it isn’t hubs fault for being inadequate don’t think it is still fair that you give him sex. No, that is not the case. He can’t give you pleasure, don’t use your body to give him pleasure. However, he is “letting” and desiring that you still receive that pleasure, so yes it is fair that you at least still allow him to receive pleasure as well, and your hand is perfectly suitable for that job. And hubs should also have porn, and be able to watch you, because again part of his pleasure in all of this is that he gets to watch what he can’t accomplish. So, to break it down:
1. Watching
2. Masturbating
3. Handjobs
4. Porn
That’s all a cuckold needs or deserves.

And the same goes with having babies. If hubs isn’t enough to satisfy you, why would you want to pass that on to your children. Give your children genes to be proud of and genes they can properly use.
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Give your children superior big black cock genes. Not weak white boy genes.
 
MacNfries said:
.....So THAT is your logic, huh? A marriage has many variables to it, sex is only one of many. Sounds more like you need to "train" your man to please you. My experiences find that every woman is different to some degree in how she prefers sexual satisfaction. You need to show him what works for you, and if its the Big Black Cock that only works, that's fine, just don't deny HIM his own occasional pleasure. Afterall, he's a home provider, puts food on the table, provides you security, listens when you have problems, a handyman, etc. And, an occasional handjob is the thanks you show him for not being able to please you on the sheets?
.....If he's enjoying this treatment, that's one thing, but, if he's asking to occasionally have sex with you, and you're denying him that, that's another. What are his attributes? Why did you marry him? Build him up instead of breaking him down ... or divorce him, unless you know you need that security blanket he provides you while you screw around. And biracial children face a lot more challenges than any white male born with a small penis, if that's your worry. Imagine becoming a single mom when that baby arrives ... very few white guys gonna stay around to face the embarrassments that would bring him by his family and friends.
.....Think you might wish to go back to the drawing board and think this one out a bit further.
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White guys are mostly aquiescent these days. I know a white husband who got Pat's on the back for being such a good accepting non racist Ally.
 
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Maxfield0316 said:
Not everyone goes pussy free. My wife already knows the day we stop having sex I will serve her divorce papers. Some of you might put up with the bullshit that comes from this lifestyle, but not all husbands will.
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"Deny" to tease and play and build tension? Yes
Period of "locked up with no release" the week leading up to a "sure thing" date, especially with an established Lover with bareback privileges? Certainly. Hot!

Disrespect, disdain, derision and denial? Never. That's not a marriage worth being in.
 
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