Although not much to see, here's another pic of hubby fully erect.
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And the same lover flaccid
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Is this a more fair depiction? Is the playing field more level?
I don't know. Is it? Your guy's smallish -- I get that -- and has a pubic paunch that probably increases that impression. the second pic doesn't appear completely flaccid, but lots of dudes are more show-er than grower. I understand your lover has a bigger dick than your husband. That's clear.