Interesting thread here
Tips to convince husband
- Thread starter Nephthys
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After reading 5 pages of this and the replies from very well said by QOS to absolutely absurd in the usual sense its painfully clear here that the bulk of the replies come from men who have little knowledge about sex or communication skills. That’s why I venture the vast majority are single in a wife beater in their room with a sock or listed as couple but single anyway or divorced still wanting the relationship that cost them thier marriage. Not one person suggested anything close to seeking professional help with his issue or you both seeking some professional guidance. Asking for help here is like dribbling gasoline on yourself while smoking. If he has issues find out why and seek solutions- together. If he wants to dabble with you OK no problem but you’ve got to start some serious dialogue here and drop the sneaking around and the slowly festering animosity that will build up. Start with communication and work on the issues as a team or you wont be one for long. I watch IR porn and black men turn me on. My husband knows it its no secret. But we also communicate exceptionally well and there is no behind the back stuff going on. Its not tolerated on eithers part.
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I think it's about slipping the topic of interracial in general when you can to put your feelers/hints out. How old is he? And you?
SNIPER1001
Male
No, I am engaged and we are new swingers. It has worked well for us to this point. I have lived a life full of life and death situations @AnnieS. What I CAN tell you that tomorrow is not a promise and today's happiness is better than a fortune cookie. That said, I am prepared for any vitriolic response.
amysweetgurl69
Male
My wife did that too. Now i and dropped from her Facebook friends list and locked out of her postsI just added the Bull/s component for my own enjoyment/pleasure. I do not want hubby to even know what I am doing because that makes it even hotter and sluttier for me and is MY thing
Ester Paigee
Female
You know? Maybe it is dirty talk-maybe it is girl pleasing girl thing, or maybe doing it infront of black guys. A woman who knows her way around a black man may just be the key(it is). He sounds like he needs to feel, useful. Maybe taking showers to get him in the mood. Yet men know-and it sounds like a real honest guy(he would have to be). The freaker-the more taboo-the better, I am sure.I see what you're saying; I honestly don't know what he does. I'm assuming he handles it on his own, too. He likes ... me... he just can't really... do what needs doing?
We both stopped addressing the issue because ... it's just a conversation every time. I'm a little sick of talking. He stopped addressing the issue (and pursuing it) I'm assuming because it ends up with him being frustrated (even if he still gets his).
He has issues with this in the past (before me) - I guess he's just unlucky. He's otherwise healthy.
Thank you for your input
Ester Paigee
Female
A woman who really loves sex-and could not fake it if she tried-is the type I am sure he would adore. One vital importance-discretion. It guards people.
megooooooooooo
Male
if you really want this I think the first step and the most important one is to break your husband's ego and self esteem
you need to show him how unsatisfied you are and how weak and inferior he is only after that he may accept you having a bull
You are rare . or the man faking it .
My man is faking it..? or you're saying I'm a male ... faking it as it were? Just trying to understand!
I guess I'm also slightly surprised that it's that rare women seek to supplement in a relationship (or maybe you mean rare on this site)!
What city are you in?
Massachussets, baby - Boston!
Celtic fan or Patriots?
You for the Bruins or Boston College too huh?Or?
Wasn't going to post this because I didn't want to start a sports war on here (slash ruin the mood) - but uhh... yeah.
Find me at every home game... (but I've also been to 4 Pats superbowls - three winning - go ahead, Philly fans and spell it out for me here...)
I could make you some Red Sox or Patriots earrings
dress you up in.a matching scrunchy and earrings
You inadvertently hit the nail on the head (and to answer your last message) - because even though I've been to many Red Sox games, I have been to exactly ZERO Bruins games. I know. Feel free to chastise me. I guess I'm not a real Bostonian.
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