Tips to convince husband

Our situation is similar to yours QOS- I introduced my wife into swinging to help fulfill her fantasy of a mfm. This lead to playing with couples and one of our early playsets was a mixed couple and she enjoyed his bigger cock and we went from there finding her more at that point.
Gotta love a good QOS!
 
Hotwife/ Vixen is more accurate?
You cannot have a Vixen w/o the Stag and I set up all her playtimes (interview/plan dates) she makes final choice to fuck or not at a meet n greet. This is how we work together and she knows she will be reclaimed immediately after the playdate is over no matter how tired/sore she might be... does she play in a Hotwife scenario? Yes
 
I'm terribly boring - 😂 if it's between my marriage as is and getting cock by subterfuge, Imma continue with my solo sessions and BBC content.
Who said anything about giving up your marriage? You can have both sometimes husband not going to be into it. Hopefully he either gives your a hall pass
 
(Same person, diff account since I couldn't verify a couple's account without him)

Good questions and TYVM for the input! 💋

Re: dirty talk - not really, but I don't really need that (I don't know if you were asking if he needs that?) - Past partners: no - Role play; sort of same answer as the first; I don't really need that. I just kind of need a decent sized, erect cock with some power behind it...? If vibrators etc get involved I would honestly just want to handle that myself (and I'll watch BBC porn) 🤷‍♀️ - sorry if that sounds cold or blunt.
Ever thought of going to a swingers club? We go pretty often and each time it goes a little further, two weeks ago was her first BBC. We were both in heaven, he was a great lover and he made her squirt for the very first time, followed shortly by her squirting twice more! Epic!
 
Ever thought of going to a swingers club? We go pretty often and each time it goes a little further, two weeks ago was her first BBC. We were both in heaven, he was a great lover and he made her squirt for the very first time, followed shortly by her squirting twice more! Epic!
If that helps him, it's a good idea.
 
How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks 2023.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and is his lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bob your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.
Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.
 
OK 🤷‍♀️

I'm here because BBC turns me on. I'm not sure if I didn't make that clear, but there you go.

Yes, sick of having every attempt at intimacy with my partner instead turn into a frustrating convo (with him) which has not changed this problem for us. I'm sure he is, too - the frustration isn't mine alone. Would be much preferred if it ended with everyone being happy and fulfilled.

I'm not looking for a relationship outside of my marriage; kind of thought that was clear also 🤷‍♀️ I'm looking to figure out if what turns me on might turn him on, too. There will be no risk of extramarital, emotional attachment - also not looking for that.

And yes; that's what I've been doing for 2 years, I'm assuming he has too. Yes, ED; I'm not sure how knowing exactly how my husband's ED affects him (and me) helps ambiguity - but maybe I'll just mention here that ED doesn't necessarily mean no orgasms for the sufferer. Hence why I'm wondering if maybe he could get turned on (and cum) seeing me get pleasure (from what turns me on).

Lots of people have been very helpful giving me suggestions how to start that conversation with him or what other things might help me introduce what turns me on to my marriage so that everyone feels pleasure from the situation! Thanks to everyone for the help!
If you’ve tried the ir porn route and it doesn’t work or get him going. I’d suggest telling him that you’d like to learn to squirt (if you haven’t yet). Throw in a couple of squirt scenes that you’ve selected for you guys to watch. 80% of the squirt videos should be with bbc if you can but you can sort the balance. A few that come to mind is Ashley Adam’s and Prince Yashua or Shane Diesel with savannah fox. That would bridge you getting one of those bbc dildos and a better sense if you and bbc turns him on. My wife has the Shane one and I love it when she plays with it. It works on many levels like the fact that the dildo is huge and watching enjoy herself is a big turn on.

 
How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks 2023.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and is his lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bob your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.
Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.
You obviously did not read anything she posted, not to mention many would laugh at this whole notion. Myself included.
 
How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks 2023.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and is his lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bob your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.
Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.
 
From your question it is not clear to me if you have spoken directly to your husband about your desire. If you have not, I suggest that you do so. Not only is openness required in any relationship, but, you may very well find that your proposed arrangement may be arousing to him. his consenually watching, at times, his loving wife being sexually fulfilled could perhaps also serve as a catalyst to his sexual drive. To be totally candid, I would love to hear my wife make such a request of me. Good luck!
 
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