Tips to convince husband

If you’ve tried the ir porn route and it doesn’t work or get him going. I’d suggest telling him that you’d like to learn to squirt (if you haven’t yet). Throw in a couple of squirt scenes that you’ve selected for you guys to watch. 80% of the squirt videos should be with bbc if you can but you can sort the balance. A few that come to mind is Ashley Adam’s and Prince Yashua or Shane Diesel with savannah fox. That would bridge you getting one of those bbc dildos and a better sense if you and bbc turns him on. My wife has the Shane one and I love it when she plays with it. It works on many levels like the fact that the dildo is huge and watching enjoy herself is a big turn on.

Love this suggestion - thank you! 🥰
 
1 take him to a strip club. Rub his cock while he gets a private dance. Kiss the girls boobs. Really get into it.Tell him it was so fun you want to do if again, soon.

2 repeat #1 2 more times.

3 Tell him you want to have a BBC once while out of town. No one will see or know! Say just once😁. You only want to do it once. Tell him nothing else will change cause you love him! 🙂
 
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I love all your tips and suggestions here - I'll be working on those.

I just told him I'm on this forum and he fully supports it - so... steps! 🥰
I imagine he will be ok with the idea- its HAF watching my wife fuck BBC. It may be enough to get him going again or help at least. Nothing like being at a live porn shoot with your wife being the female lead... Have him video and take pictures- then please post your adventures if you don't mind- I know I would love to see you having fun. Would you be barebacking your Bull?
 
I love all your tips and suggestions here - I'll be working on those.

I just told him I'm on this forum and he fully supports it - so... steps! 🥰
Well if you told him you're on this site, wouldn't he know what you want? Or does he not know what this site is lol.
 
Pretty simple honesty, seems like he will do anything to keep you happy. Tell him your want to try it and it’s not that you don’t love him, it’s just a part that is missing, makes you whole. A small part and go from there. Happy wife happy life
 
There is a much different dynamic when a man asks a women to perform for him vs a women initiating the same. Women are more agreeable by nature, its literally a genetic trait. Men who enjoy voyeurism of his wife or even being cuckolded is very different wiring than most normal men. It may not seem that way with all the porn, forums etc, but believe me we are in a very small minority. Even smaller outside of the US.

Men can be into it as well, but I would argue that is a lot less natural. Of course I support your right to try anything to spice up your marriage, but this may not be the best approach up front.

Guys tend to be hit or miss on this, women are much more malleable.

My issue specifically is if you plan to bring the race play aspect right away, that can be very intimidating for men of any race.

Take it from somebody who's done this many many times and is a man, start safe and easy. Also you need to address your husbands health issue regarding ED. That's a canary in the coal mine for heart disease. Make sure he is eating lots of Arugula or similar leafy greens for vasodilation and repair of his vascular system.
 
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1 take him to a strip club. Rub his cock while he gets a private dance. Kiss the girls boobs. Really get into it.Tell him it was so fun yoh want to do if again, soon.

2 repeat #1 2 more timex.

3 Tell him you want to have a BBC once while out of town. No one will see or know! Say just once😁. You only want to do it once. Tell him nothing else will change cause you !I've him! 🙂
good advise - rubbing his cock while at a strip club and kissing another female will get him to agree to most anything
 
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