Just talked with husband

Disclaimer: I told him I signed up to see the site and paid the 12 dollars to post and told him I was posting this:
So as to my prior post I was shocked when I found this site in his browsing history. It is definitely out of character for him and I was totally unaware. I confronted him and at first he acted like he did not know what I was talking about. But I took pics so he couldn’t delete (which he did) He has never mentioned swinging or anything along these lines. He finally told me that it is just a fantasy to him and that he was always into interracial porn. Which is completely fine I’m not against him watching porn, I am completely confident. Just the lying and hiding it was just a bit sketchy for me. I was trying to be as nice as possible. He said he would stop but I told him if that’s what he’s into then it is fine just don’t hide anything anymore from me! So he’s a little embarrassed right now but he’ll get over it.
I'm glad you two talked about it. I think that from now on you two can make the most of it.
 
Trying to connect with my husband. There’s clearly a disconnect somewhere in our relationship. Trying to look at things from his eyes. So we can connect again.
It’s hard to say as nobody knows the dynamics and details of your relationship, but if you are serious about getting into it and making him happy; I’d say he will get over his shyness and embarrassment over you finding out and will really appreciate the steps you have taken to try and improve your relationship.
 
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