That is not how my wife sees the modern marriage. For her new sexual freedom is not a surrender but a new opportunity. She gave me this example: as a young girl she never ate bananas. But then she tried it once and like it supremely. Since then she has bananas all the time, sometimes one, sometimes two at a time. But this does not mean that she wants to eat nothing but.... She does not want to change her marital status, she loves me. She loves me even more for allowing her to indulge from time to time. No carnage, please.
The golden mean is the foundation of perfect life leadership. Your wife sees the situation very well, because sexual openness is really an option, not a mandatory thing, where the husband must be humble and humiliated!!
It can be observed that the desire for total humility is more characteristic of masturbating white men chasing phantasmagoria than of black bulls, although there is some degree of overlap!!