Take back control of your marriage by stop paying for hotels and put your foot down.
If your letting them play without you and it is your thing that's fine. But no it is not always all about her, It should be all about the marriage union.My wife has one lover that not only do I not get to watch, but I have not even met. The thing you have to remember is that their needs come before yours.
I see your point, my wife and I discussed this arrangement before it happened and we did agree to it. The OP had a different arrangement that was changed without discussion, much less consent.If your letting them play without you and it is your thing that's fine. But no it is not always all about her, It should be all about the marriage union.
No she has what she wants and he is giving it to her good. She is not yours anymore, accept their terms.Good for her...she shouldn't stop
Str8 up her bull owns her now.interesting turn of events...
YOU wanted a hotwife and you have one. Now you're bitching because you cannot watch.
Guess what? You got your wish. She's a hotwife and she's her own woman...and she found herself a strong Bull.
Watch porn.
i understand your frustration. She’s getting what she can’t getinteresting turn of events...
YOU wanted a hotwife and you have one. Now you're bitching because you cannot watch.
Guess what? You got your wish. She's a hotwife and she's her own woman...and she found herself a strong Bull.
Watch porn.
i just think it makes it even hotter.? your denied and left out so all you have is your imagination. i hope you get included again but just be thankful your wife knows what she wanted and has been taken. Ask her to share the details and you might consider asking them to put you in chastity.My wife and bull started a few months ago and i was allowed to watch and take videos and he used to come to the house. Now he does not come saying he’s to busy and has to work so my wife has to drive to him over an hour away. Now he won’t allow me to be there or take videos. It bothers me because this was supposed to be for my wife and i both to enjoy. My wife does not want to end it because he has become her bf but now i have no enjoyment but i get stoiries when she gets home and pay for the hotel. Also I worry a lot because she drives late at night to go see him. But she won’t stop she says.
I suggest going forward for anyone they should sign a contract to state the rules and guide lines and the bull mUST Respect them or it gets shut downMy wife and bull started a few months ago and i was allowed to watch and take videos and he used to come to the house. Now he does not come saying he’s to busy and has to work so my wife has to drive to him over an hour away. Now he won’t allow me to be there or take videos. It bothers me because this was supposed to be for my wife and i both to enjoy. My wife does not want to end it because he has become her bf but now i have no enjoyment but i get stoiries when she gets home and pay for the hotel. Also I worry a lot because she drives late at night to go see him. But she won’t stop she says.
If her bull owns her, which he don't just close the wallet for the bull and the wife then watch what happens. A real qualified bull don't destroy relationships between a husband and wife.Str8 up her bull owns her now.
Easy fix. Find a more attractive bull that fucks better then the current one that respects your boundaries done. Your wife will kick the old bull to the curve in heartbeat for a more attractive more fit one. Just make sure the new one respects your rules.My wife and bull started a few months ago and i was allowed to watch and take videos and he used to come to the house. Now he does not come saying he’s to busy and has to work so my wife has to drive to him over an hour away. Now he won’t allow me to be there or take videos. It bothers me because this was supposed to be for my wife and i both to enjoy. My wife does not want to end it because he has become her bf but now i have no enjoyment but i get stoiries when she gets home and pay for the hotel. Also I worry a lot because she drives late at night to go see him. But she won’t stop she says.
I always thought that was our role to bring enjoyment to the couple. To sexually saisfy the wife and the husband to get off to his wife being satisfied. Wether it's from particapation, watching or helping.If her bull owns her, which he don't just close the wallet for the bull and the wife then watch what happens. A real qualified bull don't destroy relationships between a husband and wife.
This is what I warn couples about when they choose the WRONG person and this Ruins it for us Good bulls who only want to Enhance the relationship instead of destroying themIf her bull owns her, which he don't just close the wallet for the bull and the wife then watch what happens. A real qualified bull don't destroy relationships between a husband and wife.
Well saidCompetition cures everything. That Bull put his best effort out to get your wife, you have to keep him honest for her to keep her and the arrangement he first agreed to. Also it's up to her to ask for what she wants from him, Keep it balanced. You as the stag shouldn't pay for ******* if the relationship is out of balance. I've been that self-centered Bull before. It's not cool. This is a unique 3 way relationship. Everyone should get something out of it for it to be healthy. You should be able to talk to the Bull to get things back on track. If he brushes you off, married or not, find another one and set your wife up with him. Who knows you may find one better (e.g. lives closer, keeps his commitments, cares for your wife's well-being, wants you involved, etc).
Bottom line is, you don't have to take his self-centered behavior as a foregone conclusion. His role is to enhance what you have not jeopardize it. I'm not trying to sound all self-righteous but just saying, being a Bull doesn't mean it's all one-sided.
He can easily find a more attractive black guy that can fuck better then the current one. What built black guy wouldn't want to fuck his wife. I know I would. He just has to make sure the new guy respects his rules. If he can get his wife better dick she will forget about this homewrecker.You play the game and the game they didn't come right , so now you must fine the way to put it right again but you are in the losing position ,you need to understand sex is a very hard ADDICTIVE WEAPON.
It's not that easy for him. I'm pretty sure he still loves her. He can't just tell her to fuck off. Op find a more attractive bull. Get him down to fuck your wife and suggest it to your wife. She will agree and have the new guy take the spot of the old guy. Your wife will forget about the homewrecker and you can get back to the cuckold lifestyle you want. Give the homewrecker a taste of his own medicine.They can both fuck off and die
Idk man. I agree with you on pretty much everything but I have to respectfully disagree with you on this particular topic. There's a fine line between cuckolding and straight up betrayal. Cuckolding has boundaries set. Some are pushed more then others depending on the couple but for the most part there are boundaries. If the husband is uncomfortable with something he should be respected imo. I think for the millionth time he just needs to replace the guy with someone more respectful. I could be wrong but I thought our role was to bring enjoyment to the couple not destroy relationships.interesting turn of events...
YOU wanted a hotwife and you have one. Now you're bitching because you cannot watch.
Guess what? You got your wish. She's a hotwife and she's her own woman...and she found herself a strong Bull.
Watch porn.
That might workIt's not that easy for him. I'm pretty sure he still loves her. He can't just tell her to fuck off. Op find a more attractive bull. Get him down to fuck your wife and suggest it to your wife. She will agree and have the new guy take the spot of the old guy. Your wife will forget about the homewrecker and you can get back to the cuckold lifestyle you want. Give the homewrecker a taste of his own medicine.