My wife and bull started a few months ago and i was allowed to watch and take videos and he used to come to the house. Now he does not come saying he’s to busy and has to work so my wife has to drive to him over an hour away. Now he won’t allow me to be there or take videos. It bothers me because this was supposed to be for my wife and i both to enjoy. My wife does not want to end it because he has become her bf but now i have no enjoyment but i get stoiries when she gets home and pay for the hotel. Also I worry a lot because she drives late at night to go see him. But she won’t stop she says.
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Redjo is right you have lost control and this path is not good for you.
that I am afraid is what you are going to have to accept, its a fact of life if you want her to still carry on fucking him, you will probably get advice that you should stop her going, that's fine !!!!!!! unless your like me you don't want her to STOP!!!!
I have accepted it and it works for me, in fact I have to say I find it even hotter when I have to take her and drop her off and often collect her in the morning, but what works for me doesn't work for everyone .
I can tell you 100% if you stop her going or let her continue your in for a rough ride until you accept what she wants, I split with my wife over issues and circumstances years ago (twice) but I couldn't help my self but get back together I missed the sex and excitement of it all remember "angst" is a turn on in itself
I have accepted it and it works for me, in fact I have to say I find it even hotter when I have to take her and drop her off and often collect her in the morning, but what works for me doesn't work for everyone .
I can tell you 100% if you stop her going or let her continue your in for a rough ride until you accept what she wants, I split with my wife over issues and circumstances years ago (twice) but I couldn't help my self but get back together I missed the sex and excitement of it all remember "angst" is a turn on in itself
I do love the lifestyle it excites me so
Much just wish I could be there to watch. I don’t have to be there all the time.
The ultimate
Male
Good for her...she shouldn't stop
Stop paying for the hotel.
yes its great watching she likes me watching but equally many guys don't want their partners watching added to that she says even though she loves putting on a show for me most actually are better fucks when they know she is married and is just there for fucking
one way we have found is by me secretly watching, which is how we first started with her fucking guys in a car or vehicle in spot not far from our home she used get them to take her there before coning home
another I when she brings men home and I secretly watch
no keep paying its hotter!!!!! start taking her there and collecting her from there freshly fucked much nicer
interesting turn of events...
YOU wanted a hotwife and you have one. Now you're bitching because you cannot watch.
Guess what? You got your wish. She's a hotwife and she's her own woman...and she found herself a strong Bull.
Watch porn.
Sharebare
Male
Yes, you need to give the bull something he wants. Ask him.
Competition cures everything. That Bull put his best effort out to get your wife, you have to keep him honest for her to keep her and the arrangement he first agreed to. Also it's up to her to ask for what she wants from him, Keep it balanced. You as the stag shouldn't pay for ******* if the relationship is out of balance. I've been that self-centered Bull before. It's not cool. This is a unique 3 way relationship. Everyone should get something out of it for it to be healthy. You should be able to talk to the Bull to get things back on track. If he brushes you off, married or not, find another one and set your wife up with him. Who knows you may find one better (e.g. lives closer, keeps his commitments, cares for your wife's well-being, wants you involved, etc).
Bottom line is, you don't have to take his self-centered behavior as a foregone conclusion. His role is to enhance what you have not jeopardize it. I'm not trying to sound all self-righteous but just saying, being a Bull doesn't mean it's all one-sided.
Bottom line is, you don't have to take his self-centered behavior as a foregone conclusion. His role is to enhance what you have not jeopardize it. I'm not trying to sound all self-righteous but just saying, being a Bull doesn't mean it's all one-sided.
Or divorce the hoe if she is putting a dick over her marriage.
Let me tell you why I disagree with the divorce notion. If it wasn't for the husband, she wouldn't even be able to enjoy the lifestyle. Mark my word, as soon as she's unattached that Bull will suddenly become disinterested and dump here bc he can't give her all of what she wants. He's the lust side, the husband is the love and security side. So breaking up over a self-centered part-time MF doesn't really make sense. The relationship is a 3 legged stool and needs to be maintained as such.
I agree to that up to a point, except it's obvious the wife is showing no regards to her husbands needs/wants, whatever you want to call it. At that point, the marriage is already over.
Sharebare
Male
Being a black bull ´means being the master. He ownes you and your wife. Give him anything he wants and offer him to knock your wife up.
The marriage is in serious trouble, but if she gets divorced, tbe bull will more than likely mobff e on. He has no imterest in providing 1shelter, food, hralth insurance, emotional suppport, etc. If there is a divorce, this bitch loses both males.
Sharebare
Male
Very true.
You play the game and the game they didn't come right , so now you must fine the way to put it right again but you are in the losing position ,you need to understand sex is a very hard ADDICTIVE WEAPON.
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