Need advice bull won’t allow

Dude...I have been a bull off and on for years and I have never done that. Yes the fantasy and play are fun but when it comes to what that bull is doing I am out. I respect marriage and if the hubby wants to watch fine, but set parameters before things start and when they are broken someone gets kicked to the curb.
 
Dude...I have been a bull off and on for years and I have never done that. Yes the fantasy and play are fun but when it comes to what that bull is doing I am out. I respect marriage and if the hubby wants to watch fine, but set parameters before things start and when they are broken someone gets kicked to the curb.
Agree, a proper bull doesn't make life hard for the wife or even the cuckold. You keep them happy and you'll get invited back again and again and get all the pussy and ass you want. We had some pretty full on stuff, and a lot of humiliation inflicted by bulls (which i/we consented to), but they always stayed within our boundaries and were always respectful. No respect, no second fuck.
 
1) Don't pay for the hotel if you're not happy with it.
2) I could see him not wanting to be videotaped, but if you never get to watch anymore, and that was part of the arrangement in the beginning, then that's not cool. You should explain that to both of them.

If that doesn't work.... I don't know.. think about being swingers? Maybe have an open relationship if your wife doesn't want to stop seeing him, you can see other girls too? The bottom line is consent here and if you and your wife don't agree on things it's gonna end miserably.
 
There is a big difference between a real Bull and some guy who is just fucking your wife. The only thing I truly have an issue with is that if it is late and he's making her do all that driving alone. If that's the case, just keep her there till the morning. Being Dominant and in control doesn't mean treating someone as if their safety is of no concern to you.
 
The whole thing is, this fucker wants TOTAL control over her and her husband, and is using her to make the husband uncomfortable and feel inferior while at the same time giving himself an enormous ego boost.

It will be hard for the husband to kick her out if he really loves her, but if he talks to his wife, I mean really talks to her about how low this makes him feel, hopefully she will relay that to her lover. Over a period of time (short period hopefully) she will begin to see the selfishness of her lover and will slowly wean herself away from him.

She definitely wouldn't want to lose a good thing (her husband allowing her to fuck around) so I feel confident that she will see the light of day and keep her eye open for a new lover closer to home and one that is more understanding of her husband. End result ..... everyone happy!
 
So first, this isn't a Bull.

This is just some guy who fucks wives. So the only way you can get your wife back on your page is that you need to find her a new Bull. But until then, you need to live with this situation. You made your bed and now you have to lay in it, I'm afraid.

This is also what you get for introducing your wife to a guy, not a bull.

A Bull knows that the woman is your wife and he just gets to fuck her. He won't steal her from you, he doesnt want her, just her body and your submission. I have had to train many couples after they got involved with a "wannabe" bull.
exactly guys think they are a bull because they fucking white women, have no respect for the hubbies and try to steal them away so they can pump them out or loan them to friends. a real bull knows his place and knows he is only there to enhance the marriage and give the wife what hubby cant
 
I'm sorry but it's way too distracting to have someone there recording, and a bit creepy too. This is why my husband isn't allowed to watch. This is for the wife's pleasure to me. Give her some trust hun she isn't going to leave you. She may have discovered a side of herself she needs to learn more about. Personally I became a total wanton slut when with my first Bull, it wasn't something I wanted my husband to witness. I have also heard a few black men comment on how they feel more focused on the woman's pleasure when alone. Just a thought.
 
This owned way of live is comical. A husband and wife don't own each other but, they have made a commitment to each other and a third party has nothing to do with that commitment. If this lover goes against the agreement made between husband and wife, as the husband I see two options for this lover. One is to respect the husbands desires and abide by them, second he is done if he don't keep his nose out of their marriage. As for the wife, I myself would demand she either abide by the agreement of choose Him or I.
 
I'm sorry but it's way too distracting to have someone there recording, and a bit creepy too. This is why my husband isn't allowed to watch. This is for the wife's pleasure to me. Give her some trust hun she isn't going to leave you. She may have discovered a side of herself she needs to learn more about. Personally I became a total wanton slut when with my first Bull, it wasn't something I wanted my husband to witness. I have also heard a few black men comment on how they feel more focused on the woman's pleasure when alone. Just a thought.
Selfish fucking position. So I guess it’s just all about you? Screw the great man that allowed this to happen. God forbid you think about the torment and pain that he is coping with while you are being a slut for some stranger.
 
Here it is, there are good black men out there and some call themselves bulls. Just because a man is black doesn't make him a bull. Cuckolds need to step up to the plate. If the cuckold experience is going in a wrong direction, then you and your wife stop it. Maybe we aren't great lovers like most black men are, but you are still the man of your house. So many wimpy white men say the bull won't let me fuck my own wife and all these stupid other demands, No excuse for giving up your responsibilities in the name of being submissive.
 
Are you gonna be a man or a cuck?

It's simple. We know the answer cause you're posting instead of acting. So smell her or her panties when she comes home or have sloopy seconds!

Him being married is better it's a fantasy for him also and chances are you won't lose the wife.
 
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Easy fix. Find a more attractive bull that fucks better then the current one that respects your boundaries done. Your wife will kick the old bull to the curve in heartbeat for a more attractive more fit one. Just make sure the new one respects your rules.

Should a bull show respect or dominant?
All should know there place and it's a fantasy but it's levels to this ish too.
 
There are so many misconceptions of what a cuckold is. On this site it is totally fetishes of many kinds being called cuckolding. Cuckolds do not have to be submissive. All this domination and submission that is being put into cuckolding today is porn driven. People need to admit they have way more going on in their lives then cuckolding. Bulls dominating in a cuckold relationship? Only if the man and wife allow it. A lovers job is to have sex with a wife the give her more sexual satisfaction. If things go beyond that it is delving into a different lifestyle.
 
The problem is, a lot of y'all Mister Rogers mofos wanna roll your trolley up in Make Believe Land and don't think of the emotional aspect. You dumb asses want your wife to turn On and Off like a 'porn switch', but when DA DICK gets good (see also, TOO GOOD) you start having 'REGERTS' lol lol
When you Step In The Arena you'll liable for ANYTHING to happen.

That Bull didn't go asshole; that Bull went BULL :bounce::sex:
 
Having read the initial topic from Rccar makes me realize how lucky I am..... I have always been subservient towards my wife, even before we married, now I adopt the same attitude to her men friends as l do to her. Like him l used to be allowed to watch and even assist on rare occasions, but when she told me that watching would no longer be allowed, initially l was disappointed, which soon turned to excitement, because l knew I would have to find other ways of pleasing her. Which makes me behave in an even more passive servile manner, the more submissive I become the more I want to be. The smile on her face tells me i'm heading the right way.... She's away at her boyfriends for the holiday, leaving me a list of things to do around the house and garden. Even this excites me... knowing she's probably not given me more than a passing thought, or shared a joke or two at my expense. So being a submissive cuckold is probably the easy way out... i'd find being cuckold without being submissive a bit of a problem. So my advice would be either submit FULLY in every aspect, or ask yourself if you're sure you're doing the right thing in the first place...... but having said that maybe she is enjoying giving you angst....
 
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