Need advice bull won’t allow

[hawkdoc2006]

interesting turn of events...

YOU wanted a hotwife and you have one. Now you're bitching because you cannot watch.
Guess what? You got your wish. She's a hotwife and she's her own woman...and she found herself a strong Bull.

Watch porn.

@BBCnATX is right. So many people here talk about being a “true cuckold” means something extreme like their wife being bred, but the fact of the matter is, a true cuckold is really just a man whose wife has sex with another man on her terms.

Either accept what you are now, a somewhat unwilling cuckold, or don’t.

If you accept it, try to enjoy the angst being out of control causes.

If you don’t accept it, you could ask your wife to stop seeing him. She may do so, and the problem is solved. However, she may resent you for it. That said, if you later decide that you miss her playing with bulls, she may not be willing to try it again. You must also consider the possibility that she may not be willing to stop. What ramifications will that have on your marriage?

You agreed to be a cuckold; being one isn’t always easy. Some people, myself included, feel it’s not supposed to be. That said, I think it would be best if you talk with your wife about your concerns. If you communicate your feelings without making demands or ultimatums, at least initially, the two of you may be able to come up a solution that works for the both of you.

 

[hawkdoc2006]

There is a big difference between a real Bull and some guy who is just fucking your wife. The only thing I truly have an issue with is that if it is late and he's making her do all that driving alone. If that's the case, just keep her there till the morning. Being Dominant and in control doesn't mean treating someone as if their safety is of no concern to you.

I replied previously, but overlooked the safety issue. I think that should absolutely be addressed, regardless of whether or not you choose to accept them excluding you.

Personally, my wife has had Bulls in the past that I simply didn’t like. I would rather her have stayed with them all night, than risk her safety by driving home late, fatigued from having sex (there are studies showing people sleep easier after having vigorous sex. I’m not just saying this, because she is with a black bull).

If you are paying for a hotel, why can’t she just sleep there, even if he doesn’t?

 

[MagicMikeATX]

@BBCnATX is right. So many people here talk about being a “true cuckold” means something extreme like their wife being bred, but the fact of the matter is, a true cuckold is really just a man whose wife has sex with another man on her terms.

Either accept what you are now, a somewhat unwilling cuckold, or don’t.

If you accept it, try to enjoy the angst being out of control causes.

If you don’t accept it, you could ask your wife to stop seeing him. She may do so, and the problem is solved. However, she may resent you for it. That said, if you later decide that you miss her playing with bulls, she may not be willing to try it again. You must also consider the possibility that she may not be willing to stop. What ramifications will that have on your marriage?

You agreed to be a cuckold; being one isn’t always easy. Some people, myself included, feel it’s not supposed to be. That said, I think it would be best if you talk with your wife about your concerns. If you communicate your feelings without making demands or ultimatums, at least initially, the two of you may be able to come up a solution that works for the both of you.

EXACTLY. well said.
And to the point, I'm not making up empty opinions. Everything i know about cuckolding, I learn from cuckold couples.
It is the 'angst of being out of control' that cuckolding is built upon.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I replied previously, but overlooked the safety issue. I think that should absolutely be addressed, regardless of whether or not you choose to accept them excluding you.

Personally, my wife has had Bulls in the past that I simply didn’t like. I would rather her have stayed with them all night, than risk her safety by driving home late, fatigued from having sex (there are studies showing people sleep easier after having vigorous sex. I’m not just saying this, because she is with a black bull).

If you are paying for a hotel, why can’t she just sleep there, even if he doesn’t?

I sleep overnight at my sexy Hotwife bed, and vice versa. If she doesn't pass out after vigorous sex, it wasn't done right lol

 

[skoocum]

Safety is everything. Do not let your wife compromise her safety by driving at unsafe times or whatever. I have a hard line when it comes to my wife's safety. Fuck what he wants.

safety first. a moment of pleasure isn't worth a lifetime of regret

 

[ChloeCoksucker]

This is a tough spot but it just shows how prepared you need to be to do this. We have a very clear understanding that we are in this as a couple so that means we’re both involved. At minimum you should be getting videos of your whore wife serving her bull.

There are always risks when you give your wife a much better lover. She’s getting what she needs & what she knows you can’t give her. She’s thinking with her married pussy. Stopping leaves her holes empty & craving. That’s the Pandora’s box that you opened.

However she needs to sit down with you, if she truly loves you & find a way to work thru it. Ask her what she expects from this. If she doesn’t care enough to even try that, then you might want to get rid of her.

We have an agreement with our bull that this will involve all of us. However sometimes she meets him alone & sometimes I do too. That’s part of our agreement. Our BBC worship is always recorded for the other one. My wife really gets off seeing a vid of me dolled up getting my sissy cunt black bred. We both enjoy listening on the phone too. Even though I’m gay now I still love listening to my wife get fucked.

 

[cuckoldcouple69UK]

Certainly wouldn't work for us , it's at least a 3 way relationship for us , I'm not always there but neither of us would want me to be totally excluded and if a B wanted that we would know it's time to end it and find a new bull .

 

[BustyHotwifeLou]

Time to put an end to this game which is no longer the game you want to play. Either re-assert control or tell her it stops or you and her stop.

 

[blackguymoscow]

don't cry over spilled milk.

"no rules no limit"

 

[StanleyCush1]

don't cry over spilled milk.

"no rules no limit"

There has to be rules and limits to create the balance needed for this lifestyle. If one or the other throws all care into the wind and says, I am doing it anyway whether my spouse wants me to do it or not. That spouse needs to wipe up the spilled milk and replace it, or go without any milk.

 

[blackguymoscow]

There has to be rules and limits to create the balance needed for this lifestyle. If one or the other throws all care into the wind and says, I am doing it anyway whether my spouse wants me to do it or not. That spouse needs to wipe up the spilled milk and replace it, or go without any milk.

exactly that is what i was trying to say indirectly

when there are no rules everything goes

People in this type of lifestyle should understand that there are boundaries and they should not use their pussy and dick to think, atleast be logical ones in a while.

 

[StanleyCush1]

You got that one right but many on here are without logic. They are jumping into this like going camping without gear.

 

[LovinLife]

My wife and bull started a few months ago and i was allowed to watch and take videos and he used to come to the house. Now he does not come saying he’s to busy and has to work so my wife has to drive to him over an hour away. Now he won’t allow me to be there or take videos. It bothers me because this was supposed to be for my wife and i both to enjoy. My wife does not want to end it because he has become her bf but now i have no enjoyment but i get stoiries when she gets home and pay for the hotel. Also I worry a lot because she drives late at night to go see him. But she won’t stop she says.

Sounds like you and your wife if not all three of you need to have a serious conversation. They have basically transformed cuckolding into an affair by excluding you if that was the original arrangement. Just be prepared that she might not want to stop because maybe her emotions have become more than just good and fun sex.

 

[BWCinthe313]

Selfish fucking position. So I guess it’s just all about you? Screw the great man that allowed this to happen. God forbid you think about the torment and pain that he is coping with while you are being a slut for some stranger.

Exactly. There is a difference between this lifestyle and just being a cheating slut.

 

[Rodney10inch]

My wife and bull started a few months ago and i was allowed to watch and take videos and he used to come to the house. Now he does not come saying he’s to busy and has to work so my wife has to drive to him over an hour away. Now he won’t allow me to be there or take videos. It bothers me because this was supposed to be for my wife and i both to enjoy. My wife does not want to end it because he has become her bf but now i have no enjoyment but i get stoiries when she gets home and pay for the hotel. Also I worry a lot because she drives late at night to go see him. But she won’t stop she says.

Pathetic..I hope he’s fucking the dog piss out of her with this sad attempt of a story. I mean what kind of dude gets off being weak. Nice story bro.