Mandatory anal

Is anal mandatory for you? (Votes are hidden)

  • Yes, even if she says no

    Votes: 87 36.7%
  • Yes, if she's hesitant on it

    Votes: 40 16.9%
  • No, it's not mandatory

    Votes: 44 18.6%
  • I'll do it if she's cool with it

    Votes: 84 35.4%

  • Total voters
    237
Oh I'd work it in
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Never had the pleasure. But I would love to give it a go. I had such a big hang up about it earlier on in life. I always figured asshole was asshole, and if I did a woman, I’d do it to a man. But that’s definitely not the case. I don’t knock anybody who’s into that, I’m just not from that part of town. But if I ever do run into a white woman who’s game, I’ll give it a go. I’m not one who’s into “when she says no, she means yes”. I don’t play those kinds of games. But if she wants it back there, I’ll damn sure give it to her.
 
Someone who demands anal without regard to the partner is not a bull, that is just a total idiot and one day that behaviour will go very badly for him. In your scenario she did not want that, it is not consent and is not making her happy, in some places that will get you in jail. At the very least, it could be super gross. It is super sexually aggressive, zero tolerance for that. Same as those ‘beat that pussy up’ comments, aggressive guys who just use women as masturbation sleeves with zero concern for their pleasure. Nope. Same with the whole guy can do whatever he wants. All no. That is just boring fantasy from cucks, tiring to read it. Consent.

If that is an upfront convo at the start of a relationship on the other hand, sort of a kink compatibility check then that is different. That is just not the scenario presented here.
Facts. The only way a woman is going to enjoy anal is if she is into it. I've seen some women "suffer" initially but it seems once her lover gets his rhythm going they love it.
 
The way I figure it, anal is mandatory in the sense that if she's still refusing after a few sessions with a BBC then she clearly hasn't learned how to properly submit to black cock and the bull should be looking for greener pastures.
I want to elaborate a bit on this:
  • She has every right to refuse
  • If she's refusing that means the bull was asking and therefore it's one of the bull's kinks
  • If he's not getting what he wants out of the relationship and she's running into a roadblock preventing her from freely submitting to his particular desires then that's a point of incompatibility hindering both sides of the relationship.
  • The reason the bull should move on is respect for both the value of his own desires and time and the value of hers.
  • This applies to other kinks too. If, for instance, the bull is a fan of CNC and painal, then if she's not willing to fulfill those kinks, maybe it's not the best match.
  • Taking a while to get comfortable with fulfilling the bull's kinks is different than having an incompatibility.
  • All that being said, the bull should still keep in mind that perfect is the enemy of good and every relationship has some give and take.
  • There's nothing wrong with a bull maintaining a relationship with her while looking for someone more compatible, or even splitting his kinks up between different women interested in different things, so long as everything has been clearly communicated with everyone involved.
 
You meet a woman and yall hit it off great and next thing you know yall are fucking. Do you fuck her ass regardless? Yes, I know what it is and don't condone it, however it does happen.

On another site I saw a guy say that anal is mandatory, and he claims his dick is 9". He comments on my wife's pic that he would love to fuck her ass, I replied she doesn't do anal, and then he blocks me. He has a video posted he's fucking this girl in her ass, she's on the couch on her back and he's pushing in most of the way. You can tell she was struggling to take him in but he kept going, she didn't look like she was enjoying that much. both were younger around 19-21yo. Was it consensual? I don't know.

My wife (before we started dating) was talking to this guy and eventually went to his place. The next day she made it sound like it was the best fuck. I find out later she's not into anal and he held her legs back, she was wide open and he fucked her ass. She said she couldn't do anything, he was a police officer on the SWAT team and she couldn't move because of his strength. She just held it back.

As much as I say my wife needs to have sex with a BBC and used by a BBC, I just can't get behind her getting fucked in the ass because someone says she's mine right now. However, if he's good, and in the heat of the moment can convince her, and start slowly, then I'll be ok.

Ladies, care to share your story if this has happened to you?
Like you said if it is consensual then no problem but you must know what you are doing in the first place!
 
The first time I got fucked in the ass it was quite chaotic to say the least.

I was 19 years old and he was about 35 years old. We had been talking for a week on Tinder, I was very curious and eager to try a BBC for the first time, and I have always had a bit of a fetish with the age gap.

I wasn't sexually new or anything, I had my experience, but I was excited because this was going to be a good jump.

During the dirty talk we both said a lot of dirty things, and to be honest I mentioned that he could do "whatever he wanted" with me.

The long-awaited date finally arrived, I was already with my boyfriend, so he told me to be careful, call him for anything and all that.

I met this man, he picked me up in his car, and we went directly to the motel. The first round was absolutely incredible, more than I imagined and I felt like I was in heaven. There we were naked catching our breath and I was basically stroking his cock waiting for the next round.

We started with a blowjob, a little 69, and then he put me on all fours, knees on the carpet, half of my body on the bed face down.He was eating my ass quite a bit, I was in an incredible lustful stupor so I didn't pay attention to anything that was happening back there. So I didn't realize at what point he lubricated his cock liberally.

He put his hands firmly on my shoulder blades with all his weight on top of me and penetrated my ass basically just by aiming and using his hips, HARD.


I screamed like a bitch so loud that I hurt my throat, I squirmed and kicked like crazy. The pain was simply indescribable, fucking overwhelming and absolute, as he lay on my back, moaned in my ear and rubbed his balls against my ass with his entire cock inside.

He penetrated me hard, slowly but completely, falling on top of me and clapping my ass outrageously, I screamed and when I could finally speak I hysterically told him to stop. He just calmly told me to "stop struggling his cock with my ass" so it would hurt less and he didn't stop.

He increased the speed a little and luckily it didn't last much longer, maybe 5 minutes, while I tried to resist, clutching the sheets like crazy, biting the pillow and screaming.

There are several notes here. When I have discussed the matter, some people have wanted to tell me how I should have handled the situation. Many tell me that I should have taken off with ******* so that at least he would miss his aim and perhaps stop discouraged. But those people have never had something like THAT shoved up their ass with that *******, I was paralyzed with pain, my whole body was tense and I could barely move, I kicked and writhed, but I wasn't doing any of that voluntarily, it was just my body responding violently in spasms, I couldn't do anything but scream and wait for it to end. That's why you see these "painal" videos with girls screaming hysterically on all fours and they won't get off, they can't, I've been there. The body becomes tense, all the muscles tense, It's like a cramp that doesn't allow you to move. You are also thinking a thousand things and you don't react because the pain doesn't let you think clearly, you just want it to end.

He cums inside my ass moaning in my ear and telling me how wonderful I am and how delicious that had been. I was in fucking pain and hysterical, but I wasn't scared, nor did I feel "abus-ed", a lot of people have tried to tell me how I "should" feel, but I know what I felt.

Obviously I was furious with him. But he was so calm that it made me think that maybe I overreacted. He simply told me to calm down, that the pain would go away, that he loved it and he would make it up to me with the next rounds. He also mentioned that I mentioned that he could do whatever he wanted with me and that he thought I was completely serious, so he did it.

I stayed and the next 2 rounds were good, although I didn't feel as comfortable anymore. I saw him several more times and each time he did the same thing once per night, but I got a little used to it, I liked him a lot and I think that's why I put up with it.

To this day I don't know if it was right or wrong, I think it's more complex than just "it was wrong." To be fair, I never asked him out of bed not to do it again, but maybe out of fear of losing him and maybe he knew it and took advantage of it. Also to be fair he just lost control when he did it and I also know what it's like to be that horny and not be able to stop.

What I do know is that I'm not traumatized or anything, I just think he was a bit of an idiot for taking advantage and I for allowing it without being more firm.

Some other black guys have done it without asking me or stopping when I tell them to do it, but I won't deny that I get a little excited when they do it.

It is complex and with many grays, with sex it is often like that.
 
The first time I got fucked in the ass it was quite chaotic to say the least.

I was 19 years old and he was about 35 years old. We had been talking for a week on Tinder, I was very curious and eager to try a BBC for the first time, and I have always had a bit of a fetish with the age gap.

I wasn't sexually new or anything, I had my experience, but I was excited because this was going to be a good jump.

During the dirty talk we both said a lot of dirty things, and to be honest I mentioned that he could do "whatever he wanted" with me.

The long-awaited date finally arrived, I was already with my boyfriend, so he told me to be careful, call him for anything and all that.

I met this man, he picked me up in his car, and we went directly to the motel. The first round was absolutely incredible, more than I imagined and I felt like I was in heaven. There we were naked catching our breath and I was basically stroking his cock waiting for the next round.

We started with a blowjob, a little 69, and then he put me on all fours, knees on the carpet, half of my body on the bed face down.He was eating my ass quite a bit, I was in an incredible lustful stupor so I didn't pay attention to anything that was happening back there. So I didn't realize at what point he lubricated his cock liberally.

He put his hands firmly on my shoulder blades with all his weight on top of me and penetrated my ass basically just by aiming and using his hips, HARD.


I screamed like a bitch so loud that I hurt my throat, I squirmed and kicked like crazy. The pain was simply indescribable, fucking overwhelming and absolute, as he lay on my back, moaned in my ear and rubbed his balls against my ass with his entire cock inside.

He penetrated me hard, slowly but completely, falling on top of me and clapping my ass outrageously, I screamed and when I could finally speak I hysterically told him to stop. He just calmly told me to "stop struggling his cock with my ass" so it would hurt less and he didn't stop.

He increased the speed a little and luckily it didn't last much longer, maybe 5 minutes, while I tried to resist, clutching the sheets like crazy, biting the pillow and screaming.

There are several notes here. When I have discussed the matter, some people have wanted to tell me how I should have handled the situation. Many tell me that I should have taken off with ******* so that at least he would miss his aim and perhaps stop discouraged. But those people have never had something like THAT shoved up their ass with that *******, I was paralyzed with pain, my whole body was tense and I could barely move, I kicked and writhed, but I wasn't doing any of that voluntarily, it was just my body responding violently in spasms, I couldn't do anything but scream and wait for it to end. That's why you see these "painal" videos with girls screaming hysterically on all fours and they won't get off, they can't, I've been there. The body becomes tense, all the muscles tense, It's like a cramp that doesn't allow you to move. You are also thinking a thousand things and you don't react because the pain doesn't let you think clearly, you just want it to end.

He cums inside my ass moaning in my ear and telling me how wonderful I am and how delicious that had been. I was in fucking pain and hysterical, but I wasn't scared, nor did I feel "abus-ed", a lot of people have tried to tell me how I "should" feel, but I know what I felt.

Obviously I was furious with him. But he was so calm that it made me think that maybe I overreacted. He simply told me to calm down, that the pain would go away, that he loved it and he would make it up to me with the next rounds. He also mentioned that I mentioned that he could do whatever he wanted with me and that he thought I was completely serious, so he did it.

I stayed and the next 2 rounds were good, although I didn't feel as comfortable anymore. I saw him several more times and each time he did the same thing once per night, but I got a little used to it, I liked him a lot and I think that's why I put up with it.

To this day I don't know if it was right or wrong, I think it's more complex than just "it was wrong." To be fair, I never asked him out of bed not to do it again, but maybe out of fear of losing him and maybe he knew it and took advantage of it. Also to be fair he just lost control when he did it and I also know what it's like to be that horny and not be able to stop.

What I do know is that I'm not traumatized or anything, I just think he was a bit of an idiot for taking advantage and I for allowing it without being more firm.

Some other black guys have done it without asking me or stopping when I tell them to do it, but I won't deny that I get a little excited when they do it.

It is complex and with many grays, with sex it is often like that.
That really doesn’t sound consensual at all. Not sure if this is a fantasy, if it is true and happened to you as a woman, or not. Such is the internet and forums. Freezing during something like that is normal, as is blaming yourself. Regardless, he needs to ask for consent before doing this and the fact that you had sex again is not a factor. Look at the Harvey Weinstein trial, even after ******* women at times try to make things better and go back. Does not mean it is ok. Not at all.

For men thinking this is ok, it isn’t. Cannot give full blanket no holds barred consent to everything. That doesn’t exist. Anal sex without prep is super dangerous, can tear your anus or the colon. Seriously: consent, lube and prep are not optional. At best it could be super messy, at worst it could be a hospital and an escalating discussion with police followed by your own opportunity to experience that as well as many other non-consensual things done to you. This is not being a bull and it drives women away, it is why they do not want to be verified or to seek out BBC. It is just violent
 
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