If you did get caught by your husband, would you try to make him see that this is what you need and it has nothing to do with love? Or would you feel a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and now you can divorce and devote all your attention to your black lover?both for me its the thrill of going against everything i was raised to be as well as the risk of getting caught(married to unaware) But its also a unbelievable feeling makes me feel complete. But in the end its both and neither without a emotional connection to the guy maybe not love but certainly i need to have feelings for him
He would leave me regardless of who it was. He would never accept a cheating wife. Its a risk i accept and have lived with for yrs now.If you did get caught by your husband, would you try to make him see that this is what you need and it has nothing to do with love? Or would you feel a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and now you can divorce and devote all your attention to your black lover?