Thank you, I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not really trying to encourage other people to try it. If people aren't sure they can handle it, or aren't at least aligned in taking a calculated risk they've discussed and feel like they're ready for, they should probably listen to their guts and not do it yet, if at all. I don't think this kind of play is for everyone, and I'm not on any kind of mission to spread what we do or make it more common. My wife and I are trying to live or best life together, not be part of some kind of trend or social "movement."My request is that you use such articles as much as possible on this site and encourage people to try it.
All that said, I do love it when someone tells me that something I shared was helpful. I guess I write this stuff for those who are looking into what's worked and what hasn't worked for other couples out there, to help them evaluate their own plans and their own dynamics. We're one example of a couple for whom cuckoldry and now an unexpected kind of polyamory have worked out great, with very positive results. So if that info is helpful to anyone out there, I'm happy to discuss our approach and our experiences.