When I read the posts from women who don't have sex or have very limited sex with their husbands kind of perplexes me. It makes me wonder how strong is their relationship. I am obviously ok with my wife fucking other guys since she's been doing it for several years. But if she ever told me I couldn't have sex with her or could do anything but penetration I'm afraid that would be the end of our relationship. Sometimes our best sex is after she has enjoyed some BBC. Now I'm not knocking what people do in their relationship, to each their own, but why stay married? Having said that if the husband is ok with it and accepts it then it is was it is and everyone is happy. But I wonder how many husbands are truly ok with their wife not wanting to fuck them?
This is exactly how I feel about this topic.. I am NOT submissive, nor a poor sexual partner.. we want to explore OUR sexual fantasies together. My beautiful bride of over 30 years has been a 'Hotwife' for the last 5 years.. but just had her first BBC last may..it took a long time for her to try it.. WE do this together... WE DO THIS for OUR fun.. One of the best aspects is our 'reconnecting' and 'reclaiming' after her encounters with her new lover. Since we began this adventure, she is much more open and comfortable talking about her sexuality.. our communication is the best it has ever been.. If for some reason she lost interest in me.. then I think that would be the end of our marriage..