How do you view your husband or significant other now that you had BBC?

[Pamlovesblackcock]

Ive been married to my husband for 20 years and he is my very best friend in the world!He changed my life for the better from the moment I met him and we still make love and I let him put his little white penis in me,yet he now falls out of me alot because my lovers work hard stretching my once tiny pussy into a black owned and used pussy!My boyfriend likes to tell my husband that his wifes pussy is a black mans pussy now and its much too big for a little white dick.My hubby gets a thrill from seeing me in another mans arms and in his bed and I get a thrill from being in another mans arms and in his bed with his big thick black cock deep deep inside of me,so my marriage works perfectly,he likes seeing it and I LOVE DOING IT

 

[beenblackened]

Still love my husband very much! We have been together over 30 years now and since the addition of BBC in my life it has been better than ever. Till I had my eyes opened by a black man sex was just a thing but now I have the best of both worlds a loving husband and a magnificent BBC lover. You couldn't ask for more

 

[Pamlovesblackcock]

As every white woman should!

 

[Hansjensen]

Still love my husband very much! We have been together over 30 years now and since the addition of BBC in my life it has been better than ever. Till I had my eyes opened by a black man sex was just a thing but now I have the best of both worlds a loving husband and a magnificent BBC lover. You couldn't ask for more

That's exactly how it is!

 

[Forest]

I agree with Mariposa and Gregngingers comments. I have been with hubby over 20 years. I think it would be remarkable if any relationship stayed highly sexual together for that entire time without some extra stimulation. Our sex life had drifted into boring predictability and even went for long periods without doing it at all. We both started using fantasy to spice up sex, then to swinging once (which i not keen on) till end of last year when hubby persuaded me to go BBC. After a slow start its going ok now.
I dont consider hubby a cissy, I dont want him wearing a chastity etc. however I have noticed he is reading more on here and other places about this and it does seem to be adding to his side of the fun. If he decides to want to explore that down the road then I will be happy with that.
I still love him, he got me into this to which I thank him. And he finds it a big thrill too.

Good because I love playing with couples and although the cuck thing is fun I really enjoy threesome where the hubby gets his fun too.

 

[Chip]

My wife still loves me as a husband and ******* but sexually finds me uninteresting!

 

[3waypleasure]

A lot of these answer go to the heart of why people like me, who fantasize about it, won't jump. My relationship with my wife is worth much more than an exciting evening. And it seems to be the rare event where that is maintained

It is what ever you make it to be. We have been doing this over 10 years, still have sex 4+ times a week and both still prefer each other over any of our 'extras'. Our rule is if it doesn't enhance our sex between us, we don't do it.

We role play extensively and involve outside people in our role playing. BBCs (and others) have evolved to just "props" and "extras" for our role-playing. She knows not to mention a fantasy unless she is prepared to have it happen. We have done everything from having her kidnapped, staged gang rapes, and just about any thing else you can think of.

 

[DenRus]

Is he still the man you fell in love with or has the relationship changed? Honestly, is he a man or a complete sisssy? Do you want to keep him this way?

he is a man of course..but other men are more preferable for sex

 

[spin419]

i love him. this doesn't mean i'm blind. there are men who are better in bed than him. he knows too. i think he is great because he let me have the best of both world: love and sex.

I like the simplicity of this. It smacks
of truth and sincerity in a place where it's often in short supply.

 

[bound2bmine]

Not all marriages are the same so don't take this as an absolute but I think most wives see the husband differently after they have a steady lover Black or White but we all know that it's more intense with a black man. Here is a conversation i had with my X-Wife who left me for her black lover.

This is a conversation I had with her about our past not to long ago. I asked her.

ME: So what was the different. We know emotions came after. Was the sex better?
HER: Your right I didn't fall in love right away, but honestly I absolutely enjoyed the sex, I cant say exactly why, it was just so good.
So yes to be honest the sex was better. Sorry.
ME: Was the black thing a turn on for you.
HER: Yes, the black thing was a turn on. Can't explain why I just wanted him all the time.
I don’t know I just like the contrast if our skin together.
ME: So you didn't say if you were always attracted to black men?
HER: No not always attracted to black dudes not at all. But you saw us together can you blame me.
I'm sorry it just got to the point I couldn't imagine you touching me anymore. You wanted this! You wanted me to have a steady lover.
You encouraged us to fuck all the time. I mean you know we were together almost every day and you loved the idea that he was black.
He became my main man the only man I thought about. Sorry.

 

[whiteshadoe]

I know it changed my marriage. It got to the point she told me "I can't imagine you touching me anymore" Here is my story.
https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...or-how-i-lost-my-wife-to-the-lifestyle.94459/

Eat pineapple before the bj and your cum will be sweet, too.

 

[Janice K]

View attachment 1266576 I love my husband and I let him fuck me as much as he wants but his little dick doesn't do it for me..I've never had a orgasm while he was fucking me.He let's me fuck bbc with are without him..

I can relate to what you said about never having an orgasm while your husband was fucking me. I never had an orgasm from my ex-husband either, or any of the other white guys I'd been with before him. So you can only assume how surprising it was for me to finally experience my first orgasm through cock and it happened on my very first time with a black man, and not only did I have one orgasm but 2 more before he unloaded his own in me. In fact, I've been with a number of different black men since and I've never failed to have multiple orgasms with every black guy I've ever been with. Amazing huh..?

 

[3waypleasure]

What my husband does for me goes beyond sexual, almost a type of spiritual type of sex that cannot be compared. He has shared me with many men, which has only made me appreciate him more. There have been a few that were bigger than him, longer lasting, better shape, etc, but no one has ever given me the type of pleasure, or pushed me to the same level that he can. He takes over my mind and my body in a way that cannot be described. Even when I am being fucked by someone else, in my mind it is still him giving me the pleasure.

 

[ArizonaCpl_4BlackMen]

My hub knows that my only desire for men is with Blacks. The only men that satisfy me sexually are Black. In the decades we have been married, my desire for Black cock has increased. He is a stand-up man, my protector, and he encourages me in my lust for Black Men. In every way other than sex he is a stud! When I stopped fucking him he was proud of the fact that I give to Black Men what I do not give to him. Every day I love him more than the day before. We have never lied to each other, never restricted each other. Even if I am able to live out my desire to live part time with a Black man that would provide me to many other Black men to use, I have no doubt that when I return home he will be waiting for me. He has always been there for me, and he always will be. Period.

 

[Hansjensen]

My hub knows that my only desire for men is with Blacks. The only men that satisfy me sexually are Black. In the decades we have been married, my desire for Black cock has increased. He is a stand-up man, my protector, and he encourages me in my lust for Black Men. In every way other than sex he is a stud! When I stopped fucking him he was proud of the fact that I give to Black Men what I do not give to him. Every day I love him more than the day before. We have never lied to each other, never restricted each other. Even if I am able to live out my desire to live part time with a Black man that would provide me to many other Black men to use, I have no doubt that when I return home he will be waiting for me. He has always been there for me, and he always will be. Period.

Great to hear that you love each other very much!

 

[Torpedo]

I have to admit, as a hotwife, I'm a bit shocked by some of the comments here. I'm not having sex with other man to humiliate my husband.
This story have start some month ago, he asked me if I would say yes to sex with an other man.
My husband's fantasy is to watch me being fucked by other man. As a semi-professional photographer he enjoys taking photos of me with other man as well as with himself. I think the fact that the man is a black man enhance is fantasy, with the contrast and the taboo.
I really enjoy that situation, and I have had some great sex moments. Certainly the fact to being fuck by a stranger while your husband is watching is a powerful experience. I also found it really exciting The fact to play the "pornstar" for him, respecting his willing, having the cock in my mouth with the facial expression he wants for the photo.
But it's never about humiliating him, or whatever. He is the man I love, the man I love to have sex with. Cuckolding is just a fantasy we have from time to time

I think you are more mainstream than you realize. I have been having sex with white woman longer than most of the others here have been alive. The only time I recall that a woman actually wanted to humiliate her husband when she found out that he was fucking outside of the marriage without her knowledge or consent. None of the women currently sharing my bed involve their husbands at least they are never present. Husbands and/or boyfriends are rarely a topic of conversation but it has been years since I heard one of my bed partners disparage her husband. I think I am that something a little extra in their lives. The women seem to enjoy what I do to and for them and I certainly enjoy the variety. The relationships are pretty simple.

 

[Cuckloversissy]

Beginning down this road and trying to open up my wife to the idea of black cock, I have noticed that many couples who enter into cuckolding lifestyle white wife with black men ultimately see their relationship evolve to the point that the white wife chooses to cut her husband off sexually and reserve access only for Black cock. I am wondering after the decision to deny your husband intercourse anymore, how do you maintain a sense of connection with your hubby to keep your relationship strong? Are the black men made fully aware of your situation?

This sounds crazy but I really would not have a problem with that. As long as my wife lets me serve her everyday in other ways (cooking, cleaning, laundry, massages) then I have no problem being denied.

 

[Hotwife32]

What my husband does for me goes beyond sexual, almost a type of spiritual type of sex that cannot be compared. He has shared me with many men, which has only made me appreciate him more. There have been a few that were bigger than him, longer lasting, better shape, etc, but no one has ever given me the type of pleasure, or pushed me to the same level that he can. He takes over my mind and my body in a way that cannot be described. Even when I am being fucked by someone else, in my mind it is still him giving me the pleasure.

That's love in our opinion.. when you no longer see your husband as a lover.. you are married to the wrong person. Your life partner should be able to do things to your mental that no other person in the entire world can do

 

[4POWER]

We really want to try and find someone local , but are afraid of this. My husband and I have roll played but that's about it, how do you get comfortable enough to bring someone in?

I'll help u

 

[milf4fun]

We do this not to humiliate my hubby, its to satisfy my sexual needs. I still love him tons, but i do love being with blackmen. I would not trade my home life for anything. Sex isnt the same between us, but we do still have sex. Im not going to neglect him.things may change in the future, right now im just enjoying the lifestyle.