When I told my Mum, she couldn't believe it. She was disappointed about husband for being 'that kind of man'. When I later said I wanted a black colleague of mine to sire my first bby she was a tad concerned no one would be 'carrying our genes' in the family. The fact there I would not be married to him was secondary. But I think she was worried about the neighbors. During my pregnancy I stayed with her, and 'my man' started visiting us with flowers and gifts and she finally agreed to him staying with me when he wasn't on business trips. What she doesn't know is that he and I are meeting other people too and some townies have already seen my new lover kissing me passionately when dropping me at the train station nearby.