Took my wife a few years to agree to the idea. My wife has a public job and greatest fear was being recognized. We found a bull close by and out of state. We have met up twice so far and each time it's been better than the first . He is a perfect match for us. He is normal on the exterior and gets tested monthly and is open to drilling my wife solo or fucking her while she sucks me. I don't see is moving on ..at least not right now. It's an addition to our awesome sex life, but does not consume it.