As long as you and your hubby are OK about it, and find a suitable bull/Black Master to ease you both into the lifestyle, then you ought to go ahead and do it.
http://damiendsoul.blogspot.com/2013/08/know-your-bull.html
Becoming Black Owned
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As long as you and your hubby are OK about it, and find a suitable bull/Black Master to ease you both into the lifestyle, then you ought to go ahead and do it.
http://damiendsoul.blogspot.com/2013/08/know-your-bull.html
Thanx! It is an experience worth doing, but also youre right to be hesitant.
As Dsoul says you need to find the right guy. Problem is, i suppose, where to find the right bull/master. I just let the guy i was seeing own me, and thats not been perfect. But on the other hand i would be wary of being owned by a master advertising himself online or craigs or wherever, in case he had alterior motives.
But if you can find an experienced black guy who knows how to own and control a woman, then the sex can be amazing. X
nevercanthinkof1
Couple
My fear is letting it effect my marriage negatively. I know I am probably not set up to be owned while married since I would probably let my feelings get mixed up in it and that would cause trouble.
That is always a worry. I began having feelings for a guy last summer, i got very close to him, almost like a 'boyfriend'. I didnt want that again, thats why i think being 'owned' can actually protect against that. If you are the 'property' of a guy, and he treats you as such, then there is less chance of warm, lovey feelings for the guy.
I do have an emotional attachment with my owner, but its more of a 'hope hes going to be good tonight' feeling rather than any 'love' type feeling. X
bboi
Male
Maam, wish I could dress you up before you go to meet your owner.
That would be nice, I am on sexy clothing sites like 'Lovehoney' etc many times in the week trying to decide which new clothes to buy that will please Owner.
So you woukd be very welcome looking through my wardobes with me, helping me choose the sexiest ones, then checking my make up and nails.
You would be totally responsible for me pleasing my Owner!
bboi
Male
Yes, maam. I would love to do all that stuffs for you. I will choose the sexiest outfit, do your hair, make up and nails. Find out the sexiest heels. You will look so damn sexy that your owner won't wait for u to take off your clothes. He will be in action as soon as he see you. When, your owner will be done with you I will be more than happy to clean you up, message your tired muscles, all in all make you look like a QUEEN again.
Thats good bboi, I always want to keep Owner pleased so you would have to work hard. As for cleaning me, he causes a lot of mess down below, you would have a lot to clean! But am pleased you would love to help me becoming the full Queen of Spades I can be!
realcucklife
Male
realcucklife
Male
What is the latest?
How long on the original term?
Hi, the contract was for six months from August 9th so technically its over 9th of February. Ive been surprised over last couple of weeks that Owner hasnt seen me more and had his last few wild moments with me, but im stopping over his this weekend so I will see what he has planned!
Its been fun, totally allowing a younger, black guy to do what he wants. It has also, however, been quite hard work at times being prepared to go round his at a drop of a hat, then sometimes after getting ready he says not to etc.
Ive told hubby, and he agrees, im going to have a rest after this finishes. But we're planning on going to the next Black Mans Fan Club at a fetish club in March. Either just for a good night out, no strings attached with a guy there, or to meet a new ongoing guy. We'll see X
Thanx hotjen! I should also mention, as I feel guilty for not mentioning on my last post, that the contract ending means I can have sex with hubby again!
That will be an interesting experience! X
nevercanthinkof1
Couple
So how do you look on this now that the contract has expired?
Thanx for asking.
Its been six months of fun at times, but hard work other times. Although my 'owner' didnt always take it as seriously as I would have preferred, I did. Ive done everything he asked me to do sexually, Ive been waiting for him at the end of a phone to ring and order me round or not, Ive not had full sex with my hubby in all that time.
The sex has been great at times, quite fun not having any say in what a guy wants to do, but rough at other times.
Am I glad its over? Yes, I can chill out for a bit. Would I do it again? Possibly but with an older guy who knows what hes doing. And certainly not for a while.
Im looking forward to a night of fun, and hopefully get hubby working again this Valentines Night (good timing!) and take some time out till March when we're planning on going to a Black Mans Fan Club night for some fun! X
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doubleaaboy
Guest
Wow - thank you so much for this post. One of the hottest things I have read. To have such an honest insight to this experience is a privilege - thank you.
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tristan_dirden
Guest
Looking forward to hearing about your experience at Black Mans Fan Club night!
As a Dom and former owner of several slut I can speak from experience the only mistake you made is selecting a young ower
Completely agree with you. I was seeing the guy anyway and I was really in to the 'owned' idea. It was me that suggested it to him, we both had input in the contract and he took full advantage of the situation and why not?
I told him, especially at the beginning, about sites like this he could join to get more info, and about 'black masters' etc but as far as im aware he didnt look any of it up.
I think hes missed an opportunity, he could have used me to learn more about becoming a 'Master' and how to get in a girls head etc for the future but didnt.
Enjoyed the physical sexual side but missed the 'psychological' side of being owned I think X
