When Did You Know That You Wanted To Become A Bull?

[terell63]

I'll start off,

I think like most men that have become bulls in this lifestyle, it happened by chance. I was at a swingers' club in San Diego (Thad's, think of a dive bar for swingers, good times.) This older couples approach me at the bar and I could tell by their demeanor that the wife was in control. We chatted for no more than a few minutes and she grabbed by dick with this devilish grin while her husband had his head down. We headed upstair and I had my way with her as her husband just watched in the corner like a good cuck. Once I was done with her, he proceeded to do his clean up duties. It was at this moment I knew, I discover a new calling for me.

 

[paolacpl]

I don't know how or why, but there's a moment when you realize you're a cuck, I guess it's the same for the Bulls

 

[BlackVulcan]

I guess I'm not like most others here. I don't consider myself a "bull" at all. The likening to an anim@l is offensive to me. In fact, I try to avoid much of the nomenclature typical of this cuckold corner of the swinger lifestyle. I don't call anyone a "cuck," "whore," "slut," "b!tch," "baby," or anything derogatory. I reject any incestuous terms like "Daddy," "M0mmy," or "Baby-girl." They disgust me.

I know many here choose to ignore or deny the etymology of specific terms. But "bull," used in reference to black males, goes back to the times when male blacks were sold at auction as slaves in America. They were judged by how healthy they were with regard to labor, and for breeding new slaves. Because blacks were deemed sub-human, a term like "bull" was used to degrade and debase.
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[jaydathrowaway]

I guess I'm not like most others here. I don't consider myself a "bull" at all. The likening to an anim@l is offensive to me. In fact, I try to avoid much of the nomenclature typical of this cuckold corner of the swinger lifestyle. I don't call anyone a "cuck," "whore," "slut," "b!tch," "baby," or anything derogatory. I reject any incestuous terms like "Daddy," "M0mmy," or "Baby-girl." They disgust me.

I know many here choose to ignore or deny the etymology of specific terms. But "bull," used in reference to black males, goes back to the times when male blacks were sold at auction as slaves in America. They were judged by how healthy they were with regard to labor, and for breeding new slaves. Because blacks were deemed sub-human, a term like "bull" was used to degrade and debase.
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I agree on the Bull stuff 100%. These mfs here lowkey weird and probably a little racist as well, but if they wanna let me bang their wives and girlfriends, who am I to stop them?

 

[chiblkstud]

I guess I'm not like most others here. I don't consider myself a "bull" at all. The likening to an anim@l is offensive to me. In fact, I try to avoid much of the nomenclature typical of this cuckold corner of the swinger lifestyle. I don't call anyone a "cuck," "whore," "slut," "b!tch," "baby," or anything derogatory. I reject any incestuous terms like "Daddy," "M0mmy," or "Baby-girl." They disgust me.

I know many here choose to ignore or deny the etymology of specific terms. But "bull," used in reference to black males, goes back to the times when male blacks were sold at auction as slaves in America. They were judged by how healthy they were with regard to labor, and for breeding new slaves. Because blacks were deemed sub-human, a term like "bull" was used to degrade and debase.
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NOPE. Incorrect. The term "bull" has NOTHING to do with race. Never did. There are white bulls, and latin bulls...ect. It's a LIFESTYLE term.

 

[jaydathrowaway]

NOPE. Incorrect. The term "bull" has NOTHING to do with race. Never did. There are white bulls, and latin bulls...ect. It's a LIFESTYLE term.

Lol. You my friend, are lost in the sauce. whatever helps you sleep at night though.

 

[kenna]

Actually happened when I swiped right on a girl on Tinder, turns out she had a boyfriend but did not know till about a month into me fucking her multiple times a week. She later told me and the idea of having him watch while being caged up made me even more turned on.

 

[chiblkstud]

Lol. You my friend, are lost in the sauce. whatever helps you sleep at night though.

Ummmm....I ain't lost in nuthin'. Just stating FACTS. Deal with it.

 

[SheLikesItHard]

I wasn't actually aware that the husband was watching the first time. There was a camera in the room and he was watching from his computer. They told me afterthe fact. We repeated though. She was about my age (at the time, 20s) and he was well into his 50s. He was Italian and she was from Montenegro.

My second experience as a bull was when I was in Spain, I was fucking the girl while the husband watched (both Spanish).

So yeah, I've been on both sides of the fence. I never considered myself a "cuckold" because I'm otherwise pretty alpha. I'm not at all arrogant but I'm reasonably good looking and not badly endowed either. But yeah, my last ex (Venezuelan) was an open relationship and I quite enjoyed watching my her play with multiple big cocks at once.

 

[BlackVulcan]

NOPE. Incorrect. The term "bull" has NOTHING to do with race. Never did. There are white bulls, and latin bulls...ect. It's a LIFESTYLE term.

It's a lifestyle term now. The lifestyle appropriated several terms to expand or alter their original meaning, including "Cuckold." Indeed, the term "bull" within the cuckold fetish does encompass men of any race. Nevertheless, "bull" was derived from "buck," the denigrating term for black male slaves. With the stereotype of black males being of very large endowment, "bull" became the adapted term, and this has evolved to be the general reference for any outsider male participant within the cuckold and hotwifing fetishes.

"...The cultural importance of the cuckold in America is rooted in racism: in pornography, the wife of the cuckolded (almost exclusively white) husband is most commonly sleeping with African-American men, meant to provide an additional layer of humiliation if the white husband sees that man as “inferior.” In the world of pornography meant to elicit humiliation as an erotic sentiment, cuckold porn takes advantage of its viewers’ racist perceptions..."

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[paolacpl]

I guess I'm not like most others here. I don't consider myself a "bull" at all. The likening to an anim@l is offensive to me. In fact, I try to avoid much of the nomenclature typical of this cuckold corner of the swinger lifestyle. I don't call anyone a "cuck," "whore," "slut," "b!tch," "baby," or anything derogatory. I reject any incestuous terms like "Daddy," "M0mmy," or "Baby-girl." They disgust me.

I know many here choose to ignore or deny the etymology of specific terms. But "bull," used in reference to black males, goes back to the times when male blacks were sold at auction as slaves in America. They were judged by how healthy they were with regard to labor, and for breeding new slaves. Because blacks were deemed sub-human, a term like "bull" was used to degrade and debase.
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I agree with you on other terms, but personally I don't consider the word "cuckold" denigrating, I feel like a cuckold and I'm proud of it!

 

[paolacpl]

It's a lifestyle term now. The lifestyle appropriated several terms to expand or alter their original meaning, including "Cuckold." Indeed, the term "bull" within the cuckold fetish does encompass men of any race. Nevertheless, "bull" was derived from "buck," the denigrating term for black male slaves. With the stereotype of black males being of very large endowment, "bull" became the adapted term, and this has evolved to be the general reference for any outsider male participant within the cuckold and hotwifing fetishes.

"...The cultural importance of the cuckold in America is rooted in racism: in pornography, the wife of the cuckolded (almost exclusively white) husband is most commonly sleeping with African-American men, meant to provide an additional layer of humiliation if the white husband sees that man as “inferior.” In the world of pornography meant to elicit humiliation as an erotic sentiment, cuckold porn takes advantage of its viewers’ racist perceptions..."

What the Cuck? The Psychology & History Behind Cuckoldry

Cuckoldry is an often misunderstood fetish that falls under the broad category of masochism. Join us as we shine the light on what makes these cucks tick!

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If you’re curious about finding out what cuckolding is, the things you should consider before trying it, or where to find a “bull,” we’ve got you covered.

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However, I hope the cuckold lifestyle translates into a reversal of meanings and the erasure of racism. The old stereotype of an inferior man is overturned and transformed into respect and admiration.
(That's definitely the case for me!)

 

[BlackVulcan]

I agree with you on other terms, but personally I don't consider the word "cuckold" denigrating, I feel like a cuckold and I'm proud of it!

That's fine for you. I'm merely presenting the data and the history.

 

[chiblkstud]

It's a lifestyle term now. The lifestyle appropriated several terms to expand or alter their original meaning, including "Cuckold." Indeed, the term "bull" within the cuckold fetish does encompass men of any race. Nevertheless, "bull" was derived from "buck," the denigrating term for black male slaves. With the stereotype of black males being of very large endowment, "bull" became the adapted term, and this has evolved to be the general reference for any outsider male participant within the cuckold and hotwifing fetishes.

"...The cultural importance of the cuckold in America is rooted in racism: in pornography, the wife of the cuckolded (almost exclusively white) husband is most commonly sleeping with African-American men, meant to provide an additional layer of humiliation if the white husband sees that man as “inferior.” In the world of pornography meant to elicit humiliation as an erotic sentiment, cuckold porn takes advantage of its viewers’ racist perceptions..."

What the Cuck? The Psychology & History Behind Cuckoldry

Cuckoldry is an often misunderstood fetish that falls under the broad category of masochism. Join us as we shine the light on what makes these cucks tick!

tabooless.net

Cuckolding: What It Is And Why Some People Love It

If you’re curious about finding out what cuckolding is, the things you should consider before trying it, or where to find a “bull,” we’ve got you covered.

www.o.school

Hate to break it to you but...PORN ISN'T REAL LIFE.
...and "bull" isn't derived from "buck", they just have the same first letter.

 

[BlackVulcan]

Hate to break it to you but...PORN ISN'T REAL LIFE.
...and "bull" isn't derived from "buck", they just have the same first letter.

Incorrect. Ever hear of amateur porn? Yeah, that material is not fictionalized. It's as real as you're gonna get. Furthermore, any videos, writings, and photo images of a sexual nature posted by anyone here with the intent to arouse falls under the category of porn. Check the dictionary. And even professional porn involves real people performing real sex acts, despite whatever fictionalized scenarios and storylines.

As for the rest, I've explained all that, and I've provided the supplemental material which supports my position.
It's your choice to ignore or refuse to accept whatever you wish, of course. And all the best to you.

 

[chiblkstud]

Incorrect. Ever hear of amateur porn? Yeah, that material is not fictionalized. It's as real as you're gonna get. Furthermore, any videos, writings, and photo images of a sexual nature posted by anyone here with the intent to arouse falls under the category of porn. Check the dictionary. And even professional porn involves real people performing real sex acts, despite whatever fictionalized scenarios and storylines.

As for the rest, I've explained all that, and I've provided the supplemental material which supports my position.
It's your choice to ignore or refuse to accept whatever you wish, of course. And all the best to you.

You provided opinion pieces. All I'm saying is the term BULL has NOTHING to do with race. That's it. Nothing more.
Cheers.

 

[BlackVulcan]

You provided opinion pieces. All I'm saying is the term BULL has NOTHING to do with race. That's it. Nothing more.
Cheers.

You sidestep well. Must be a good dancer.
And your opinion is noted.

 

[chiblkstud]

You sidestep well. Must be a good dancer.
And your opinion is noted.

I ain't side stepping nuthin', yo. I stand by what I said. The term "BULL" has NOTHING to do with race. That clear enough? But YOU seem to clearly want it to.
Cheers.

 

[ernest barnes]

well, whatever your motivations are, you just need to know our wives need you guys !!!

 

[BlackVulcan]

I ain't side stepping nuthin', yo. I stand by what I said. The term "BULL" has NOTHING to do with race. That clear enough? But YOU seem to clearly want it to.
Cheers.

You asserted that 'porn isn't real life.'
I addressed that directly as I corrected you.
You side-stepped, ignoring that correction to reassert your own personal opinion on the other issue, not supported by any other data.
And as far as the latter, I said that your opinion is noted.

Hopefully, it's all clear to you this time.