It's one of my greatest sources of frustration in this lifestyle. These obnoxious, hateful, jerk-off fantasy seekers, or the catfish who pretend to be a woman that ruin it for everyone else.
Early on (early 2000's), when I would write a woman about this lifestyle, I'd get about a 30-40% response rate. Now it's like 3-4%.
This group of assholes have irritated so many women, that most women don't even bother responding to legitimate, well-thought out, patient lifestyle men anymore.
I'm good friends with a prominent lifestyle QoS cuckoldress, and she stopped reading her Inbox on a different lifestyle site, because it was constantly filled with messages from these types of guys. Not to mention, she has been catfished and stood up enough times to where she stopped trying to meet a cuckold. Imagine being a relatively normal lifestyle guy, really looking for a good woman, and you don't even have a chance because she was turned off by these types of guys.
I've spoken to a few women on this site that have experienced some of them here.
I wish there was a good solution, but assholes who just don't get it exist everywhere... especially in the dark recesses of the internet.
Some points white guys on this site should heed:
- Don't insult a woman's (or a black man's) intelligence by pretending to be someone else. It's a dick move. No one respects you.
- If you write a woman, be polite, be interesting, and write more than a few words.
- If a woman declines, or simply refuses to respond, accept it graciously. Being bitter or angry, and lashing out only makes you look bad.
- If you are into bisexual stuff, or gay stuff... fine. Keep it in the areas meant for bi/gay activity. Those of us who are straight don't want to be identified as bi/gay. Imagine if there was a group of people that was into something that you didn't like, such as *******, but they constantly posted content about it in your forums, and everyone started assuming you were into ******* as well. You wouldn't like it at all.
- Stop saying your particular kink applies to everyone in the lifestyle. Not every white cuck wants to be turned into a sissy. Not every white cuck wants to suck a dick or be fucked or clean up a creampie. Not every white cuck wants the white people to be bred out of the world. You appear fanatical when you make statements like these. If you, or you and a woman in your life want to pursue those things, great. Don't assume everyone, or anyone wants those things.