Yes, I DO prefer "thugs"

I felt similarly about when people called Kanye West "a secret white man" after he said he likes Trump. Love Or hate Trump, my thinking was, "C'mon, a black man's not allowed to have his own opinions? All blacks have to believe the same *******?" Shows how white liberal types can be racist in ways they don't realize.
This guy not only loves Trump but he also spoke for Trump during the RNC Convention too:
 
Talk about wanting black men to portray negative stereotypes to full fill your fantasies and clearly the media has filled in your head what a typical black man should be

Just because a black man is well dressed, can keep a job, is educated along with being well spoken and stays out of trouble with the law does not make him a white man with black skin.
Amen to that my brother
 
Perhaps women here wish to be around these kind of thugs that today shot up a mall in my city? If such women desire such men so much to be shot up and suffer physical damage or loss of her life? Perhaps she would also be with such fools and help them out with their legal expenses, burying them should they die, as well as getting a criminal record for being an accessory? ;)
https://www.cp24.com/yorkdale-mall-evacuated-after-shots-fired-police-1.4074555
 
I am a very optimistic positive mental attitude thinking black man. Therefore I think of most others as having the same mindset as myself. I want to believe that white racism is on the decline. Being a student of how the mind works I cant help but to conclude that white women thinking this subconsciously means that her conscious actions makes her want to see black men in the backward thinking thug mentality for her own selfish reasons. Reading this thread it just encapsulates what I have heard called "sexual racism" For most educated thinking black men its irritating to hear that we are to be desired for being an ******* instead of being a productive human being that most black men are trying hard to become. If we are going to fuck you like an ******* I doubt that you will engage our minds like our bodies. Some black men will be happy to oblige you, just make it plain that this is how you see us. Might want to read the story of ex playboy model Christina Carlin-Kraft murdered by ex con black man who she willingly took back to her place after meeting him at a bar.
 
Women are free to find attractive any kind of men, many girls in my high school also like the thuggish classmates. The bad guy/good guy dichotomy exists among women of all Western countries. But it seems in America this profile is so linked with a specific race that a black male with some educational levels and a "normal" behavior is considered "a white guy with black skin". A view that seems to be shared by an important part of the African American community, that has internalized a language, aesthetics and behavior as part of its culture and identity.

I like strong, self-confidence, dominant and assertive men. But an assertive character without education means someone who only says bullshit without realizing of it.
I HATE the phrase “acting white” just because some of us are well spoken and decently educated and/or cultured. I really love and agree with what you said.
 
Someone posed this question in another thread, but something happened the other day that made me think about it more... I have always been more attracted to the "thug" type of black guy... kind of like Wesley Pipes in porn. LOL The guy I've been seeing for years is not THAT extreme but he does have a "thug" side to him that I find really sexy. And to me "thug" is kind of like a "bad boy." I don't mean someone who is an actual criminal-- like a ******* or murderer or anything horrible like that. I mean a guy with an "edge." One who has a "street" side to him. In other words, I'm not looking for a white guy with black skin. I'm looking for a black guy with black skin (I even prefer darker black guys over lighter ones). No offense to anyone! :oops:

So anyways, the other night I met a more "clean cut" type of black guy at an event. I thought he was cute, we made out a bit, but I wasn't fully turned on by him... Not the way I am to the more "thug" type of guy I've been seeing on and off for years! So I realized that for me, that is a BIG PART of the attraction I feel to black men. Does anyone else feel this way?
I completely understand that you like what you like and there’s nothing wrong with having your preference. However I do take great offense to the “white with black skin” comment. None of us are white with black skin. We are just different types of BLACK MEN.
 
I completely understand that you like what you like and there’s nothing wrong with having your preference. However I do take great offense to the “white with black skin” comment. None of us are white with black skin. We are just different types of BLACK MEN.
Preach it brother. Thats pure ignorance. Smh.
 
I completely understand that you like what you like and there’s nothing wrong with having your preference. However I do take great offense to the “white with black skin” comment. None of us are white with black skin. We are just different types of BLACK MEN.
Preach it brother
I agree with the quote “I’m not looking for a white guy with black skin. I’m looking for a black guy with black skin.”

It’s something that I’ve struggled with. I believe in equality of all races and I don’t believe anyone should be judged on stereotypes. But being raised where I’m from where there were no black people around the only reference I had to black men was the media. As a teenage girl I watched hours of rap videos with black men portraying themselves as thugs, criminals, etc.- young, dark skinned, muscular, tattooed black men who seemed dangerous but very sexy. I knew that not all black men were like this but over time in my mind these “thugs” became objects of desire.

Now as an adult I have had the opportunity to know many educated, talented and accomplished black men and women who prove that black people in reality are just the same as everyone else. But in my mind only those “thugs” are the ones who turn me on. And that’s a hard thing for someone who tries to see everyone as equal- I’m giving in to a stereotype which only allows those stereotypes to perpetuate further.
Yall silly white females do not understand the degradation and disrespect you are putting towards us strong black men with this nonsense of "white man in black skin". Yall are simply fetishizing us and not realizing the insults you're throwing at us. Blame it on your upbringing and neighborhoods if u want, but that ignorance is part of the problem around the world. Most of us black men don't give a fuck who/what you're attracted to, but when you demean us and and try to strip away our "blackness" because of our intellect, the way we dress, or even our skin tone, thats when we have a problem. I'm only speaking for myself when i say i am a very proud black man and will never allow y'all be the judge of my "black card". And funny gow most this ******* is coming from non-verified and no pic having profiles.
 
Some people are only comfortable with "certain types" of black men, and they believe only a certain type of black man can truly be Black,
that type of thinking is so full of ignorance and white supremist notions that its not even funny.
I use myself as an example, I grew up on the south side of chicago, one of the roughest and toughest areas in all of the united states, so I need know one to tell me about what a thug is, but yet I have never been to jail, or in prison, I am well educated and intelligent and articulate, and as a former
U.S. Marine I willing to bet I'm rougher and tougher and can fuck you harder than any "Thug" you will ever meet.
 
This thread is hystericall lol. Bickering over someones preference in black males. Thats like if I posted a thread saying I prefer petite women over bbw then someone misunderstands it and claims I'm fat shaming lol. Btw I love big girls lol,but anyway my whole point is loosen up people its not that deep. Stop being too tight about *******
Smh. U must not be reading what is coming from the other black men. Its not about preference bro. The issue is the part about black men that aren't thugs are "white men in black skin". As if we're pretending to be white because of... Blah blah blah. Don't no proud black man wanna be called white. Period
 
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