Yes, I DO prefer "thugs"

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daydreamer3

Female
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NY, US
Someone posed this question in another thread, but something happened the other day that made me think about it more... I have always been more attracted to the "thug" type of black guy... kind of like Wesley Pipes in porn. LOL The guy I've been seeing for years is not THAT extreme but he does have a "thug" side to him that I find really sexy. And to me "thug" is kind of like a "bad boy." I don't mean someone who is an actual criminal-- like a ******* or murderer or anything horrible like that. I mean a guy with an "edge." One who has a "street" side to him. In other words, I'm not looking for a white guy with black skin. I'm looking for a black guy with black skin (I even prefer darker black guys over lighter ones). No offense to anyone! :oops:

So anyways, the other night I met a more "clean cut" type of black guy at an event. I thought he was cute, we made out a bit, but I wasn't fully turned on by him... Not the way I am to the more "thug" type of guy I've been seeing on and off for years! So I realized that for me, that is a BIG PART of the attraction I feel to black men. Does anyone else feel this way?
 
daydreamer3 said:
Someone posed this question in another thread, but something happened the other day that made me think about it more... I have always been more attracted to the "thug" type of black guy... kind of like Wesley Pipes in porn. LOL The guy I've been seeing for years is not THAT extreme but he does have a "thug" side to him that I find really sexy. And to me "thug" is kind of like a "bad boy." I don't mean someone who is an actual criminal-- like a ******* or murderer or anything horrible like that. I mean a guy with an "edge." One who has a "street" side to him. In other words, I'm not looking for a white guy with black skin. I'm looking for a black guy with black skin (I even prefer darker black guys over lighter ones). No offense to anyone! :oops:

So anyways, the other night I met a more "clean cut" type of black guy at an event. I thought he was cute, we made out a bit, but I wasn't fully turned on by him... Not the way I am to the more "thug" type of guy I've been seeing on and off for years! So I realized that for me, that is a BIG PART of the attraction I feel to black men. Does anyone else feel this way?
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Talk about wanting black men to portray negative stereotypes to full fill your fantasies and clearly the media has filled in your head what a typical black man should be

Just because a black man is well dressed, can keep a job, is educated along with being well spoken and stays out of trouble with the law does not make him a white man with black skin.
 
jsmooth said:
Talk about wanting black men to portray negative stereotypes to full fill your fantasies and clearly the media has filled in your head what a typical black man should be

Just because a black man is well dressed, can keep a job, is educated along with being well spoken and stays out of trouble with the law does not make him a white man with black skin.
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I wasn't trying to stereotype in saying what I did... but you have to admit there ARE different types of black men, just as there are different types of white men, etc. I'm also not stereotyping based on what I think black men "should be." I'm saying what type I'm attracted to. Just the way some women (the smart ones) go after the geeky types who make lots of money (i.e. Bill Gates) and others go after "bad boys." I knew a woman who always went after rock n' roll types... all of them white, but the point is, they weren't what most people would consider a "good" type of guy.

There is a massive difference between a "Wesley Pipes" and Dr. Ben Carson, for example. And I'm expressing which type I lean towards. I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings.
 
see I am just the opposite and the thug type is a HUGE turn off, I was a professional type that can talk and have some game with m head as well as my pussy, that's one reason I was so against this idea at first is because most black men I had met was the thug type and a just not at all a turn on until met someone that was actually educated and professional that it started to turn me on,,,, but I agree for me the darker over light skin because the contrast is part or what makes it erotic to me
 
Women are free to find attractive any kind of men, many girls in my high school also like the thuggish classmates. The bad guy/good guy dichotomy exists among women of all Western countries. But it seems in America this profile is so linked with a specific race that a black male with some educational levels and a "normal" behavior is considered "a white guy with black skin". A view that seems to be shared by an important part of the African American community, that has internalized a language, aesthetics and behavior as part of its culture and identity.

I like strong, self-confidence, dominant and assertive men. But an assertive character without education means someone who only says bullshit without realizing of it.
 
You know I don't have degree but I've read Sartre, can argue why asset depreciation causes companies to hire robots over people, and can even give my commentary on why Matisse is far better than Monet. Most educated people are dumb fucks. What they paid a ton for and wracked up debt for I got free from the prison library.

And on top of that I can fuck like a mad mom fucker.
 
12inchBBC said:
You know I don't have degree but I've read Sartre, can argue why asset depreciation causes companies to hire robots over people, and can even give my commentary on why Matisse is far better than Monet. Most educated people are dumb fucks. What they paid a ton for and wracked up debt for I got free from the prison library.

And on top of that I can fuck like a mad mom fucker.
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but yet you have not took the time to get verified why
 
12inchBBC said:
You know I don't have degree but I've read Sartre, can argue why asset depreciation causes companies to hire robots over people, and can even give my commentary on why Matisse is far better than Monet. Most educated people are dumb fucks. What they paid a ton for and wracked up debt for I got free from the prison library.

And on top of that I can fuck like a mad mom fucker.
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In my mom tongue 'educated' is 'culto', a person who has culture, no matter how he got it, while 'educado' means 'polite', because it is assumed that the duty of anyone who has a kid is to teach him to respect other people. In English 'educated' tacitly implies that knowledge can only be adquired in an education centre, something that is obviously false.
 
daydreamer3 said:
Someone posed this question in another thread, but something happened the other day that made me think about it more... I have always been more attracted to the "thug" type of black guy... kind of like Wesley Pipes in porn. LOL The guy I've been seeing for years is not THAT extreme but he does have a "thug" side to him that I find really sexy. And to me "thug" is kind of like a "bad boy." I don't mean someone who is an actual criminal-- like a ******* or murderer or anything horrible like that. I mean a guy with an "edge." One who has a "street" side to him. In other words, I'm not looking for a white guy with black skin. I'm looking for a black guy with black skin (I even prefer darker black guys over lighter ones). No offense to anyone! :oops:

So anyways, the other night I met a more "clean cut" type of black guy at an event. I thought he was cute, we made out a bit, but I wasn't fully turned on by him... Not the way I am to the more "thug" type of guy I've been seeing on and off for years! So I realized that for me, that is a BIG PART of the attraction I feel to black men. Does anyone else feel this way?
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I completely agree :)
 
JerseyGirl said:
I posted that I was turned on by thugs in that other thread on the subject. A girl wants what she wants. Can’t help that.
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That`s all good. Everyone has her/his own favorite flavors. But that`s not the point.
You quoted a passage by another user and then agreed with it by saying: "I know exactly how you feel." - making it appear like you agree with that exact quoted statement 100% (including diction). Is that the case?
 
daydreamer3 said:
I wasn't trying to stereotype in saying what I did... but you have to admit there ARE different types of black men, just as there are different types of white men, etc. I'm also not stereotyping based on what I think black men "should be." I'm saying what type I'm attracted to. Just the way some women (the smart ones) go after the geeky types who make lots of money (i.e. Bill Gates) and others go after "bad boys." I knew a woman who always went after rock n' roll types... all of them white, but the point is, they weren't what most people would consider a "good" type of guy.

There is a massive difference between a "Wesley Pipes" and Dr. Ben Carson, for example. And I'm expressing which type I lean towards. I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings.
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Sounds like you dont know what a real black man is. You are part of the problem
 
12inchBBC said:
Just because someone hasen't been locked doesn't mean he's better than someone who has. And don't deny that's what he was implying.
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Not denying, but I even expressed in my post that I didn't mean an actual criminal... I meant more of a guy with an edge. It doesn't mean that I wouldn't be attracted to a black man who hasn't been to jail. I mean the guy I've been seeing has been once or twice for only a day or so each time for pot related things-- not because he's some violent thug! It doesn't mean I'm not attracted to him because he doesn't have a lengthy prison record! LOL
 
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