Yes, I DO prefer "thugs"

Talk about wanting black men to portray negative stereotypes to full fill your fantasies and clearly the media has filled in your head what a typical black man should be

Just because a black man is well dressed, can keep a job, is educated along with being well spoken and stays out of trouble with the law does not make him a white man with black skin.

I felt similarly about when people called Kanye West "a secret white man" after he said he likes Trump. Love Or hate Trump, my thinking was, "C'mon, a black man's not allowed to have his own opinions? All blacks have to believe the same *******?" Shows how white liberal types can be racist in ways they don't realize.
 
I felt similarly about when people called Kanye West "a secret white man" after he said he likes Trump. Love Or hate Trump, my thinking was, "C'mon, a black man's not allowed to have his own opinions? All blacks have to believe the same *******?" Shows how white liberal types can be racist in ways they don't realize.


From reading all the responses from this thread I felt the same way as you do since it's never good to assume anyone of a certain stereotype whether they are black or white and we all have our own beliefs and opinions.
 
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Someone posed this question in another thread, but something happened the other day that made me think about it more... I have always been more attracted to the "thug" type of black guy... kind of like Wesley Pipes in porn. LOL The guy I've been seeing for years is not THAT extreme but he does have a "thug" side to him that I find really sexy. And to me "thug" is kind of like a "bad boy." I don't mean someone who is an actual criminal-- like a ******* or murderer or anything horrible like that. I mean a guy with an "edge." One who has a "street" side to him. In other words, I'm not looking for a white guy with black skin. I'm looking for a black guy with black skin (I even prefer darker black guys over lighter ones). No offense to anyone! :oops:

So anyways, the other night I met a more "clean cut" type of black guy at an event. I thought he was cute, we made out a bit, but I wasn't fully turned on by him... Not the way I am to the more "thug" type of guy I've been seeing on and off for years! So I realized that for me, that is a BIG PART of the attraction I feel to black men. Does anyone else feel this way?
think I just got ya white sexy ass pregnant reading this hatitan skin baby
 
I felt similarly about when people called Kanye West "a secret white man" after he said he likes Trump. Love Or hate Trump, my thinking was, "C'mon, a black man's not allowed to have his own opinions? All blacks have to believe the same *******?" Shows how white liberal types can be racist in ways they don't realize.

I actually have great respect for anyone who goes against the grain. It takes a lot to be a black republican or whatever. I'm the first one to say how irritating it is how everyone expects ALL black people to be democrats or to share the same opinions on everything.
 
This thread is hystericall lol. Bickering over someones preference in black males. Thats like if I posted a thread saying I prefer petite women over bbw then someone misunderstands it and claims I'm fat shaming lol. Btw I love big girls lol,but anyway my whole point is loosen up people its not that deep. Stop being too tight about *******
OMG you are so right ! i totally understood what she was saying and then everyone had to go get all crazy about it.
 
This is not about sexual preferences, but linking a social status, a subculture and a set of behaviours with an specific race, something that is racist by definition. However, I think the greatest problem of the sexual attraction based on stereotypes is that any stereotype is a false or oversimplified image of a human community. It is not something real, or has undesired "side components".

When I was in UK I dated several guys and I found obvious that their idea about the Spanish women is based on cliches. Some expected a brunette with dark eyes (most of the Spaniards are brown haired), passional, spicy and craving to "take care" of her man. I think many white Anglos like Asian or Hispanic women because they are tired of feminism and look for a traditional female role. Some of the guys I dated had insane expectations, like the hope that I would wash the dishes or clean his flat first. In short, they wanted a devoted whore in the bedroom an the perfect housewife outside it. Maybe in 1945 they would be successful, but in 2018 I wouldn't bet on it. The woman they were looking for does not exist.

Throughout my professional life, I have seen many girls attracted to the class thug, because he is a male model that makes them feel safer, but this attraction only convert them into easy meat for domestic abusers. The thug of the movies or video clips has little to do with the real one.

The same happens with the expectations of many women of finding a Dom after reading 50 Shades of Grey, written by a bored housewife after a brief research on Wikipedia. In my opinion, many modern women are frustrated with their sentimental and sexual life simply because they have unreal expectations based not on their life experience, but on magazines for women, romantic novels and movies, porn intended for men, and postmodern feminism.

So the only solution is to find a common ground with your sex partner to "play" with roles/stereotypes in an uninhibited and cynical way. In a perfect scenario, both parts may find exciting to play the role that fulfills the others expectations. However, this often does not happen so communication is essential.
 
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This is not about sexual preferences, but linking a social status, a subculture and a set of behaviours with an specific race, something that is racist by definition. However, I think the greatest problem of the sexual attraction based on stereotypes is that any stereotype is a false or oversimplified image of a human community. It is not something real, or has undesired "side components".

When I was in UK I dated several guys and I found obvious that their idea about the Spanish women is based on cliches. Some expected a brunette with dark eyes (most of the Spaniards are brown haired), passional, spicy and craving to "take care" of her man. I think many white Anglos like Asian or Hispanic women because they are tired of feminism and look for a traditional female role. Some of the guys I dated had insane expectations, like the hope that I would wash the dishes or clean his flat first. In short, they wanted a devoted whore in the bedroom an the perfect housewife outside it. Maybe in 1945 they would be successful, but in 2018 I wouldn't bet on it. The woman they were looking for does not exist.

Throughout my professional life, I have seen many girls attracted to the class thug, because he is a male model that makes them feel safer, but this attraction only convert them into easy meat for domestic abusers. The thug of the movies or video clips has little to do with the real one.

The same happens with the expectations of many women of finding a Dom after reading 50 Shades of Grey, written by a bored housewife after a brief research on Wikipedia. In my opinion, many modern women are frustrated with their sentimental and sexual life simply because they have unreal expectations based not on their life experience, but on magazines for women, romantic novels and movies, porn intended for men, and postmodern feminism.
Very well said. Stereotypes add however spice on a sexual relationship but always at the right moments and always with the right persons. Stereotypes are not however something you should base your hole ideology for picking a sexual partner.
 
My stereotyping doesn't get black people killed. Other genuine criminal thugs do.

Some of you are taking what I said ridiculously far. It's as if you only want to come to this forum to get into fights.
You have to be careful what you say, you reap what you sow.

And clearly, you are ignorant to a degree if you didn't expect backlas
 
I agree with the quote “I’m not looking for a white guy with black skin. I’m looking for a black guy with black skin.”

It’s something that I’ve struggled with. I believe in equality of all races and I don’t believe anyone should be judged on stereotypes. But being raised where I’m from where there were no black people around the only reference I had to black men was the media. As a teenage girl I watched hours of rap videos with black men portraying themselves as thugs, criminals, etc.- young, dark skinned, muscular, tattooed black men who seemed dangerous but very sexy. I knew that not all black men were like this but over time in my mind these “thugs” became objects of desire.

Now as an adult I have had the opportunity to know many educated, talented and accomplished black men and women who prove that black people in reality are just the same as everyone else. But in my mind only those “thugs” are the ones who turn me on. And that’s a hard thing for someone who tries to see everyone as equal- I’m giving in to a stereotype which only allows those stereotypes to perpetuate further.
That's fine. They were the first ones who became sexualized for you. Same with me and Indian women lol
 
Can't be mad at her for liking what she likes. You like white women. You'd have an issue if someone said you were "part of the problem".
Looks like you actually did read the thread and missed the OPs whole view of what a real black man is. No one cares if the person likes thugs, but projecting that a thug is a real black man is ignorance at its finest.
 
Looks like you actually did read the thread and missed the OPs whole view of what a real black man is. No one cares if the person likes thugs, but projecting that a thug is a real black man is ignorance at its finest.
She shouldn't think that a real black man is a thug. She should just know that a real black man makes himself available as a sex object i.e. the point of this site. Got it. Again, weird situation to get on a soapbox.
 
She shouldn't think that a real black man is a thug. She should just know that a real black man makes himself available as a sex object i.e. the point of this site. Got it. Again, weird situation to get on a soapbox.

I take it you have no standards when it comes to getting white pussy if you are willing to let every white female objectify you as just a sex object.
 
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