No. If you know the main meal is lacking, you won't go to that restaurant at all.
If a man has great sex and an orgasm where he shoots his load, he may be satisfied and think well, thank you. And it takes some time till he will have recovered. A woman's sexuality is more complex than that. Typically when she has a great sexlife also her libido
increases. She will become more playful and perhaps do things that she hasn't even thought about before. If you want a woman to start in "this" lifestyle you need to have a great sexlife as a couple first and add new elements (toys, ..., an additional "player", ...) in order to keep her libido grow.
An exception would be couples who have been together for a long time already and have found the partner for life in each other. It may happen, more often than not, that their sexlife changes over the years and at one point starts to cause problems. In that case a lifestyle including a third party or sex partners in addition can be advantageous for both without putting the relationship to a test, if both consent to such a lifestyle.
In a situation, on the other hand, where a husband or boyfriend is boycotting the couple's sexlife on purpose in order to make his wife or girlfriend want more than they have sexually, the wife or girlfriend will be left frustrated instead, which typically has the effect of a
decrease in her libido. She will feel less loved and less attractive as a woman. That's not something a loving husband/boyfriend will want for his wife/girlfriend and it is certainly nothing that will make her interested in any sexual lifestyle. In the long run it may lead her to
cheating but
not to start an adult lifestyle like the one discussed.
