I saw two couples, both white female with black men all in their late twenties-early thirties, leaving a restaurant. The girls were all smiley and happy and cuddling up to the guys, so my instant thought was: there are two white girls enjoying some really good BBC.
The odd thing though, is that the two black guys were totally emotionless, no smiles, no touching the girls, nothing. Weird, almost like zombies.
Totally emotionless is odd. Not outwardly expressive does not mean they are not holding up there end.
There is a mindset, correctly I must add, among cats who shall be deemed players or womanizers that in any pairing there is one who is
chasing and one who is being chased. If you [the man] have to chase, you have no power and if you both are chasing, it won't end too well at times. This does not mean there is not mutual attraction.
In all relationship here are followers and leaders. The female,
when she is with a man she is fucking hot and horny for, will be the follower. I again and talking in public. She is often the sexual aggressor behind closed doors since she needs his cock.
This is not to play it off that man or woman is inferior nor superior. There are leaders and followers. Are you one who needs to chase and beg or one who gets chased after and is begged by others?
This means that in normal social settings, in public, you can see who has the lead. Again, not taking about bed room time nor the lead up to it. The guy in many cases will take what he wants and lead her into that action there.
Is she pawing all over you? Is she leaning into you? Is she touching you?
or
Are you trying to cop a feel on her? Are you trying to impress her and hold her attention?Are you being pulled about by her and are thirsty for her approval or your being desperate about getting sex or not?
Who has the power? Who is really leading?
Watch some bitch ass men try to 'pick up' women at bars. Buying all those drinks to get the girl buzzed, pissing away money and she still walks off. They lean in, they try and touch her, they are too fast to jump to her needs.
Look at some pimp ass, smooth man. After he interacts, she is touching him and flirting as she does. She preens her hair. She leans into him and she fights to get his attention. He is fun and warm and composed at all times, yet he is leading her!
Who leads and who follows? You can't fake it and be some bullshit puffed up ego asshole and 'think' you lead or tell others you do.If you are a man, you lead the women however and your sexuality sets the tone. And moistens their panties.
Still, who leads and who follows? Who is being chased and who is running after another desperately? Those black men who has the white chicks really into them were
leading the girls even though it look like they were just being static.They were being how they were and that was making the context for the girls to be how they were and respond to their men with joy and filtration.
Learn to see what is really going on and you get to take a different vantage on PDA and courtship displayed in the open. Most women are sexually submissive. ALL women are sexually submissive and surrender to the right, dominant and sexual, men. They love to give in and be taken over by lust and sexual joy and orgasms.
You can see dudes who lead women sexually, in that key way, by how the women react to those men in public and how they just fall into his flow and follow his lead. Those are the women, FYI the very same, who are "bitches" to lesser beta males, the mean girls and the babes who bust guys balls often too when the other wimp men fail the leadership test of manhood. Funny that duality of women and who gets what side of her. The fury or the passion...
And it just looked like those black cocksmen where simply
sitting there doing nothing. Some black men are pimps without apology. Very smooth fellows!
