Just wondering, those couples who have had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, have your encounters become a little mundane and predictable ? What do you do to change it up and add some excitement to it?
If I may, I'll answer from a Bulls perspective who enjoys long-term as opposed to short "relationships". As with all things, if no effort, apathy, laziness and complacency are the modus operandi, OF COURSE it becomes mundane. Changing it up requires just a bit of creativity. Some of the ways I've "spiced things up" (though I've never been boring, more of a suprise) is make my couple dinner and fuck the Mrs in the kitchen while prepping dessert; arrive and pull the Mrs right into the shower, clothes and all, strip her out of a wonderfully wet outfit shampoo her hair, bathe her then fuck; go for a "romantic walk" and fuck the Mrs while she's bear hugging a tree; go to the sauna together and tease then blow her back out as soon as we get to the suite or back to their home. Bring the Mrs/HotWife/Girlfriend flowers or some other small gift (if you've never tried this as a Bulll you might be very suprised by the show of appreciation )Just wondering, those couples who have had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, have your encounters become a little mundane and predictable ? What do you do to change it up and add some excitement to it?
Perhaps for us this very reason is why we have tried so many different things in the lifestyle. If a playmate becomes mundane then perhaps a new playmate will help improve or spark a new chapter in the excitementJust wondering, those couples who have had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, have your encounters become a little mundane and predictable ? What do you do to change it up and add some excitement to it?
not really.Just wondering, those couples who have had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, have your encounters become a little mundane and predictable ? What do you do to change it up and add some excitement to it?
This is the beauty of it. The biggest thrill is always the start, now love, excitement, surprises, lust etc... when that fades and it does fast especially if you are secured with your cuck, the bull can get repetitive Nd the beauty is... just find another and do it again, and again. Its your perogative.For us when things become complaciente or no longer exciting we tend to look for a new companion to explore with. We’ve had encounters which were one night stands and some that lasted for years but the long term relationships can get stale so we can either add someone to the mix or end that relationship and find some new ones. The great thing is there are a huge number of men single or married out their waiting for a chance to play in the lifestyle we have chosen to play in.
good comment and concept. Although my man is not a cuckold but we feel very much the same. For me I like to think of my group of bulls I tend to enjoy as a Stable of Bulls, of whom I can pick from when I desire. As you mentioned there is always room for a new Bull in the Stable.This is the beauty of it. The biggest thrill is always the start, now love, excitement, surprises, lust etc... when that fades and it does fast especially if you are secured with your cuck, the bull can get repetitive Nd the beauty is... just find another and do it again, and again. Its your perogative.
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This ain't marriage and social norms... this is actually on primal emotions and instincts. Dot get caught up in modern society, this isn't that. This is as raw as it gets. ✌
I enjoy a new guy to help keep thing exciting we have never explored each other before and even though we may do some of the same things, it is with someone new and so it isn’t just like the last time. Also I like to be adventurous go have sex somewhere newJust wondering, those couples who have had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, have your encounters become a little mundane and predictable ? What do you do to change it up and add some excitement to it?
And some should be kept to pure fantasy. I've heard too many horror stories from couples/women who tried to re-enact some purely fantastical, staged (controlled environment) porno. Real life has teeth that can rend and tear emotional and physical well being. Believe that. Or don't. Sociopathic behavior seems to be the new fad. I'd advise not putting yourself or others in situations that BITE (Some scars don't heal folks)It is like in a "normal" relationship. You have to "work" on it. If you do always the same, yes it becames boring. But I think, especially people with this kind of kink have a lot of fantasies, that should be made true....
absolut. Ich bin vollkommen einverstandenBei dem Post ging es darum, ob solche Beziehungen manchmal langweilig werden. Natürlich werden sie langweilig, wenn man nichts dagegen unternimmt. Aber es muss ja nicht gleich ins andere Extrem übergehen. Dazwischen ist genug Platz um eine ausgefüllte und für alle drei zufriedenstellende Beziehung aufzubauen.
"real life has teeth" - well done! And these teeth are not just the physically way - they are deep in our souls! There for one our rules was, is and will be: Communication is a must between wife and husband and "watch out" what your stomach tells you!And some should be kept to pure fantasy. I've heard too many horror stories from couples/women who tried to re-enact some purely fantastical, staged (controlled environment) porno. Real life has teeth that can rend and tear emotional and physical well being. Believe that. Or don't. Sociopathic behavior seems to be the new fad. I'd advise not putting yourself or others in situations that BITE (Some scars don't heal folks)
You've clearly never worked in a HospitalMasking; role play; whipped cream; fruit/berries; well placed in all of the orifice's
Totally agree, for those that are new and watch and want to live in a porn world, real life sex is not like a porno movie which is staged sex, real life can be better than porn for all both those participating and those watching, but boundaries must be in place, as for things getting old, there are options, stop and reflect on what is good and bad, change partners, change the environment you are playing, mix things up, clubs, private parties, play at home, and always communicate with each other!And some should be kept to pure fantasy. I've heard too many horror stories from couples/women who tried to re-enact some purely fantastical, staged (controlled environment) porno. Real life has teeth that can rend and tear emotional and physical well being. Believe that. Or don't. Sociopathic behavior seems to be the new fad. I'd advise not putting yourself or others in situations that BITE (Some scars don't heal folks)
Hear hear..really you have to work on that?It is like in a "normal" relationship. You have to "work" on it. If you do always the same, yes it becames boring. But I think, especially people with this kind of kink have a lot of fantasies, that should be made true....
..mhm...dein Wort in..Bei dem Post ging es darum, ob solche Beziehungen manchmal langweilig werden. Natürlich werden sie langweilig, wenn man nichts dagegen unternimmt. Aber es muss ja nicht gleich ins andere Extrem übergehen. Dazwischen ist genug Platz um eine ausgefüllte und für alle drei zufriedenstellende Beziehung aufzubauen.