Just wondering, those couples who have had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, have your encounters become a little mundane and predictable ? What do you do to change it up and add some excitement to it?
Question for Experienced Couples
- Thread starter CuckoldCouple
- Start date
If I may, I'll answer from a Bulls perspective who enjoys long-term as opposed to short "relationships". As with all things, if no effort, apathy, laziness and complacency are the modus operandi, OF COURSE it becomes mundane. Changing it up requires just a bit of creativity. Some of the ways I've "spiced things up" (though I've never been boring, more of a suprise) is make my couple dinner and fuck the Mrs in the kitchen while prepping dessert; arrive and pull the Mrs right into the shower, clothes and all, strip her out of a wonderfully wet outfit shampoo her hair, bathe her then fuck; go for a "romantic walk" and fuck the Mrs while she's bear hugging a tree; go to the sauna together and tease then blow her back out as soon as we get to the suite or back to their home. Bring the Mrs/HotWife/Girlfriend flowers or some other small gift (if you've never tried this as a Bulll you might be very suprised by the show of appreciation
)------
All ordinary, regular *******. Right? Not so ordinary if I'm seen once or twice a month.
All non-Bull *******, right? Really, You'd be amazed how hard a woman will fuck and suck if you bring her an unexpected bouquet of flowers. All sappy stupid dumb *******, right? Ever play Uno with the stakes being orgasm denial quickies between each round?
----
Boring is an attitude. You We Him Her rae accountable for [our] attitudes and how it defines our reality. I choose to be the wild card. I'm not even boring after countless overnights, and I slip the Mrs BBC in her sleep and fuck her to wakefulness.
If it's ever boring it's because
You (all parties involved)
Let
It
Get
Boring
Last edited:
Perhaps for us this very reason is why we have tried so many different things in the lifestyle. If a playmate becomes mundane then perhaps a new playmate will help improve or spark a new chapter in the excitement
not really.
i let my wife take the lead on this part, but we both play. i'm no 'beta boi'!
she's bisexual, & tends to like the same kinds of women i do as well.
it seems to do something for her to know i'm spreading my seed as well.
but as for her escapades, we always share openly & stay imaginative.
For us when things become complaciente or no longer exciting we tend to look for a new companion to explore with. We’ve had encounters which were one night stands and some that lasted for years but the long term relationships can get stale so we can either add someone to the mix or end that relationship and find some new ones. The great thing is there are a huge number of men single or married out their waiting for a chance to play in the lifestyle we have chosen to play in.
This is the beauty of it. The biggest thrill is always the start, now love, excitement, surprises, lust etc... when that fades and it does fast especially if you are secured with your cuck, the bull can get repetitive Nd the beauty is... just find another and do it again, and again. Its your perogative.
No bull should fel upset when hiubsay good bye. He should be happy for what you gave and please for you to grow as a slut hmthat he helped nurture and create.
This ain't marriage and social norms... this is actually on primal emotions and instincts. Dot get caught up in modern society, this isn't that. This is as raw as it gets. ✌
good comment and concept. Although my man is not a cuckold but we feel very much the same. For me I like to think of my group of bulls I tend to enjoy as a Stable of Bulls, of whom I can pick from when I desire. As you mentioned there is always room for a new Bull in the Stable.
From time to time we spice up our sex life with a second man for me while my husband is watching. This "starting thrill" is hot because we have had such "no mercy hammer times" with some bulls and know about our reaction after such sessions: We both fucked over months like animals in "memory" of such meetings- at last that is the reason. When I open my legs for a big cock and I watch the eyes of my husband while the bc gets deeper and deeper inside me, my legs ups my ears and my boots or heels dangling in the air and my husbands edges like hell just in the beginning (there was no fucking at all) - that is pure life and I love it!
I enjoy a new guy to help keep thing exciting we have never explored each other before and even though we may do some of the same things, it is with someone new and so it isn’t just like the last time. Also I like to be adventurous go have sex somewhere new
It is like in a "normal" relationship. You have to "work" on it. If you do always the same, yes it becames boring. But I think, especially people with this kind of kink have a lot of fantasies, that should be made true....
And some should be kept to pure fantasy. I've heard too many horror stories from couples/women who tried to re-enact some purely fantastical, staged (controlled environment) porno. Real life has teeth that can rend and tear emotional and physical well being. Believe that. Or don't. Sociopathic behavior seems to be the new fad.
I'd advise not putting yourself or others in situations that BITE (Some scars don't heal folks)Bei dem Post ging es darum, ob solche Beziehungen manchmal langweilig werden. Natürlich werden sie langweilig, wenn man nichts dagegen unternimmt. Aber es muss ja nicht gleich ins andere Extrem übergehen. Dazwischen ist genug Platz um eine ausgefüllte und für alle drei zufriedenstellende Beziehung aufzubauen.
absolut. Ich bin vollkommen einverstanden
It is casual sex, something to do for fun, and if it ever becomes stale or mundane, then it's quite simply time to move on. We haven't had a relationship with someone that was beyond sex, so there's nobody getting hurt feelings or anything like that.
"real life has teeth" - well done! And these teeth are not just the physically way - they are deep in our souls! There for one our rules was, is and will be: Communication is a must between wife and husband and "watch out" what your stomach tells you!And some should be kept to pure fantasy. I've heard too many horror stories from couples/women who tried to re-enact some purely fantastical, staged (controlled environment) porno. Real life has teeth that can rend and tear emotional and physical well being. Believe that. Or don't. Sociopathic behavior seems to be the new fad.
Totally agree, for those that are new and watch and want to live in a porn world, real life sex is not like a porno movie which is staged sex, real life can be better than porn for all both those participating and those watching, but boundaries must be in place, as for things getting old, there are options, stop and reflect on what is good and bad, change partners, change the environment you are playing, mix things up, clubs, private parties, play at home, and always communicate with each other!And some should be kept to pure fantasy. I've heard too many horror stories from couples/women who tried to re-enact some purely fantastical, staged (controlled environment) porno. Real life has teeth that can rend and tear emotional and physical well being. Believe that. Or don't. Sociopathic behavior seems to be the new fad.
Hear hear..really you have to work on that?
Right..
Does cucki know...and you too?
Interessting^^
..mhm...dein Wort in..
