I agree... Wholeheartedly... Secrets ruin things for everyone
How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?
- Thread starter Molly1980
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Agreed entirely
You can’t change a person’s heart, same way he can’t change yours. Simply, someone is going have compromise or part ways
You’ve been on this site for almost FOUR YEARS... when did all this happen?
Compromise is the best solution. He may not even care as long as both you guys are pleased.
For me it would be if I ever KNEW my wife and I had the same affections but just no communication towards it. Also we BOTH felt we had to be a certain way in our marriage, but deeply wanting the same things without knowing we could share ANYTHING with each other. Horrible communication does that. As well as I hinted SEVERAL times about her being my favorite sex star.
castrated cuck
Couple
I had no choice in the matter.
Imagine this scenario.. Something I had in mind for her. I live in a one bedroom apartment. I had her cuffed to my front door one time... I'd have 3-4 young and old BBC's waiting in my room. Her blindfolded... I'll let each one out of the room one at a time... She loves her neck kissed and her inner thighs groped... After their all ready and hard..I let each one out one by one... All they can do is kiss her neck and squeeze her thighs.. Poking her with their dicks as they do... They all get 2 minutes per while she's blindfolded.. after each I feel between her legs to see how wet she is..
Go for it. Let him know. Keep it honest. I'm sure he wants to enjoy, film and bring ultimate to you guys relationship
Just one time. Want her to try it one time and then go from there. Do you think I should let bulls text her without me telling her?
My wife has me already convinced and she doesn't know it lolThere has to be a reason or some type of concession, convincing a person is like selling a car. You want him to come along freely. The lifestyle is not for all. Like all things there are seasons (buena suerte)
LebanonHotwife
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Does your husband have a fantasy you could do for him? You can message me if you want to talk more about this.
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I don't know her, but what woman doesn't love attention?! I think that if they can start flirty and then work to sexting... bingo! Try it!
I'm tempted. Just don't want her to get mad at me.
Talk to him. Tell him your needs. I'm in a similar situation. It's costing me my relationship tho. We both want the same things but miss each on ALL things because of it.
Someone above recommended part of what I did - first, get a few drinkies and ask him about his fantasies offer to help him get there and of course, yours can be discussed next. Make it clear this is sex, not love and romance nor cheating ... start talking bout it, maybe pics/movies and then enjoy it together (whether he joins the dates or not).
Secondly, I get him involved in my fun ... planning, getting ready, discussing after (tho don't have to share every single detail). You can decide on having him physically involved ... fluff, clean-up, etc ...
Turns out in my case that his fantasies were supportive of mine ... sph, prepping me before and after dates, some fem dress, some ****** bi, chastity, etc ... Almost 11 years of fun games for me (and us)!!
Secondly, I get him involved in my fun ... planning, getting ready, discussing after (tho don't have to share every single detail). You can decide on having him physically involved ... fluff, clean-up, etc ...
Turns out in my case that his fantasies were supportive of mine ... sph, prepping me before and after dates, some fem dress, some ****** bi, chastity, etc ... Almost 11 years of fun games for me (and us)!!
In my case... Me and the wife never discussed. I hinted SEVERAL times that she would be my favorite porn star. Even wanted to create a website with us and her in different situations with women and men. Bondage also. Never talked about and broke the fuck up before we could. Not ask the way broke but no cigar either. Guys love her. And so do I. These situations aren't about love tho. Just complete pleasure on both parts. We think so much alike it's crazy... Constantly looking into each other's eyes all those years... Behind our eyes were our truths but outta our mouths came the lies we used to please reach others ears. Honesty is the best policy. We exchanged pleasantries today. Haven't in a long time. That was a good thing. Baby steps. If the steps get bigger... I'm being honest about what I expect and want from her.
I wish my wife was like you. I've tried but she got more religious and now we hardly have sex and I resort to watching IR porn and jerking off.
Nothing wrong with having faith and religion at all. However, no sex? That will destroy a marriage. And creative sex and variety are key to keeping a sex life hot and healthy. She's shooting herself in the head.
Sometime you can’t. Just gotta do what you gotta do.
