How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?

[Molly1980]

I am married and developed an advanced impulse for the BBC lifestyle through an un meditated encounter. I was caught by my husband and I was even pregnant from this occurrence last year. Unfortunately I not only experienced a miscarriage at 18 weeks but my husband filed for divorce.

Since then... my husband and I are back together and even though the is remorse he is doing very well in moving on as we both agreed. He has not mentioned as if it never happened.

Now however.. I am constantly tormented by these urges and fantasies I have in regards to big black cock. I have committed errors with several encounters behind my husband's back in my moments of weakness and I don't want to live like this. I LOVE my husband with ALL OF MY HEART. I TRULY DO even though I must sound hypocritical. I don't want to lose him.

But this urge, my impulses and physical needs of getting "blacked" are so strong. Had nothing to do with love, is only physical.
I wish could somehow get my husband to accept this as a lifestyle. I don't want a divorce, I want to keep my husband. But U also want BIG BEAUTIFUL BLACK COCK. I see so many husbands on here who support their wives and wonder if there is any hope for me.

Does anyone have any advice for me on how to convince my husband of this lifestyle? There is no option any other way. I have made the decision of leaving my addiction of getting "blacked" forever if I cannot accomplish convincing my husband.

So PLEASE HELP ME

Thank you

 

[Fantasywife85]

Just sit him down and talk to him. Tell him your reasons and show him this site

 

[Arich2345]

Jus tell him how strong the urge is to be filled with black cock. Watch IR porn together, I never thought I'd be addicted to bbc n white sluts but I so am

 

[Molly1980]

Is touchy because agreement was to move on as if it never happened. He doesn't listen

 

[BruceJenner76]

Id try to explain it more as a need, I think thats what it is. Doesnt change anything in your relationship. Go slowly.

 

[BruceJenner76]

5 years or so ago, I would have NEVER even thought of entertaining such... yet, here I am now.

 

[Molly1980]

Id try to explain it more as a need, I think thats what it is. Doesnt change anything in your relationship. Go slowly.

Yes exactly, is all it is

 

[Fantasywife85]

Just give it time. Don't push it

 

[Arich2345]

Is touchy because agreement was to move on as if it never happened. He doesn't listen

It'll be hard to pretend like it never happened. Especially when you are still craving bbc

 

[Molly1980]

It'll be hard to pretend like it never happened. Especially when you are still craving bbc

I never orgasm like that before

 

[Molly1980]

Just give it time. Don't push it

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[BruceJenner76]

Yes exactly, is all it is

Its like men and women still masturbate when they are married, its not cheating LOL. Cant run away with your hand. Just drive that point that its only sex. If he doesnt believe you, you can say... why would I even be telling you if I was into cheating or starting a new relationship with someone else. The fact you bring something uncomfortable out should underline your true intentions.

 

[Molly1980]

Its like men and women still masturbate when they are married, its not cheating LOL. Cant run away with your hand. Just drive that point that its only sex. If he doesnt believe you, you can say... why would I even be telling you if I was into cheating or starting a new relationship with someone else. The fact you bring something uncomfortable out should underline your true intentions.

This is good, is exactly how I feel

 

[Arich2345]

I never orgasm like that before

I bet, he will understand someday how good bbc feels inside of your pussy an when he realizeshow hott it is everything will change

 

[czveronika]

I feel you...Ive got the same problem as you... unfortunately, while there are many threads for cuckolds on how to convince their wifes/gfs, there are almost no threads for women on how to convince their husbands/bfs

 

[Molly1980]

I feel you...Ive got the same problem as you... unfortunately, while there are many threads for cuckolds on how to convince their wifes/gfs, there are almost no threads for women on how to convince their husbands/bfs

Yes you are correct

 

[Molly1980]

Someone say I have to become "Femdom" but is not my personality

 

[BruceJenner76]

Someone say I have to become "Femdom" but is not my personality

No, doesnt have to work that way. Most women I talk to are subs to black men.

 

[Molly1980]

No, doesnt have to work that way. Most women I talk to are subs to black men.

Exactly I am 1,000,000 percent submissive to black men ❤

 

[Arich2345]

Exactly I am 1,000,000 percent submissive to black men ❤

That's so fucking hott, can't believe your husband won't let you have what you deserve an that's to be used by black cock